All: What do you think about body integrity disorder?

A bit off the typical discussion but I am curious if people think it is real and what they think of those who choose to amputate limbs. Also - do you think there is any similarities to trans issues, or would it be offensive to even make a comparison? I expect some people will find the idea that they are connected insulting while others will draw parallels, and some will have sympathy for those with BID while others will have disgust. Hopefully everyone can play nice on this one; I am curious about people's thoughts!

Posted Mar 2, 2020, 3:15 AM UTC

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Omina_SentenziosaSarcastic Ovalord•

It's real just like sex dysphoria.

And just like sex dysphoria, indulging in it and cutting people's limbs is the least reasonable way to treat people who suffer from it.

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CorporalWotjekfemale athlete•

https://www.reddit.com/r/GCdebatesQT/comments/dtaiih/for_those_of_you_who_insist_on_equating_body/

FWIW, I don’t oppose allowing people with BID to amputate certain body parts causing them distress, but they need to go through extremely thorough, intensive, and prolonged counselling and risk assessment first.

While I agree on the whole BID bears a lot of similarities to sex dysphoria (SD)—

  • social contagion / cause

  • sexual cause

  • successful patients report improved quality of life thereafter, and there’s usually an (albeit still extreme) stopping point to body modification, unlike with sufferers of ED or muscle dysphoria

  • it’s important to keep detransitioners / the equivalent term for those that might regret BID surgeries in mind

—there are some less significant differences as well.

  • no requirement to ‘pass’ as amputees for BID vs. a general age window to start transitioning to ‘pass’ for SD

  • BID who’ve removed their limbs become exactly like the amputees they’re become vs. TM&TW cannot

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CannotIntoGenderOPcheck out /r/BannedFromGCdebatesQT•

Interesting thanks!

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lgballiance•

BID is very real - otherwise healthy people don't stick their hands in dry ice because they dislike their human fingers.

I see a lot of similarities between body dysmorphia, BID, and gender dysphoria/sex dysmorphia, mainly that individuals focus negative thoughts and trauma into one aspect of themselves and obsess over removing that to eliminate the supposed source of that negativity. At the same time, I believe treatment should not be physically altering the body to match the affected person's dysphoria/dysmorphia, but therapy to alleviate the psychological origins of placing those negative emotions onto those traits.

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margiejamisonGold Star TERF•

One similarity is that BID is often pursued for reasons of sexual gratification. Another is that it affects mostly men. They start out imagining themselves as amputees and get erections while pretending with braces and slings and clever camera angles, first in private then in public. They seek out women who are disabled or amputees. They often harass such women at group support meetings and get amputations so they will fit in better and have a right to the space.

I don’t know if it leads them to seek out sex with men who have had amputations.

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greynose_algebraGender Critical Trans Natal Female•

I accept that it's real, and I have said at least once before on the internet--albeit in different words--that I believe if gender were abolished, the number of trans people would be similar to the number of people who experience body integrity disorder.

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Chunkeeguy•

It's a variant of gender identity dysmorphia. They should be treated the same way and not pandered to.

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CannotIntoGenderOPcheck out /r/BannedFromGCdebatesQT•

What do you mean by "pandered to?" Is offering trans people transition treatments pandering? What medical treatments do you consider pandering in general?

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margiejamisonGold Star TERF•

I would consider any indulgence of a delusion or departure from reality to be pandering.

That any surgeon is allowed to mutilate healthy body parts and maintain certification is pandering. “My nose is too big; cut some of it off and rearrange it for aesthetics rather than function,” or any statement like it should be met with a resounding referral to mental health care.

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jupiterssunday•

A disorder that causes an obsessive desire to self harm needs extensive therapy and absolutely zero humouring or indulgence in those desires to hurt themselves.

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censorshipmentBlack Lesbian•

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3326051/

Fifty-four BIID subjects completed the survey and indicated that the main rationale for their desire for body modification is to feel complete or to feel satisfied inside. Sexual arousal concerning their BIID (i.e. being aroused when seeing someone disabled resembling their BIID or when imagining themselves being disabled) was present in almost half of the subjects, but was never the primary rationale for their desired body modification. 79.6% were males, 96.3% were of Caucasian origin, 64.8% had a university degree, and age range was 18–76 years.

My initial question is what is mentally wrong with white males in general? Why are they so disordered in general?

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Iced_iced_vovo•

It's an interesting question.

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somegenerichandlesomewhat GC, any pronouns•

Probably having to do with affluence.

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[deleted]•

I think males are biologically disordered so maybe that's part of it.

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10000cockroachesgender hating•

This is a nice article in BIID, doing also parallels with GID

https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2000/12/a-new-way-to-be-mad/304671/

It is a thin line to walk. There is evidence that amputation is an effective treatment on above-thresshold cases, but the result of the treatment makes one dysfunctional in certain physical terms, so what is the net outcome is not clear. On the one hand there are people who definitely benefit from amputation, but making amputation more accessible will inevitably make people who would otherwise find ways to manage their disorder in other ways, to become more dysphoric and failing to find other ways to manage it. So even the creation of medical standards to make perfectly sure that regrets do not exist would not be able to control the social impact on the sub-thresshold cases.

I think that late onset GID and BIID are very very similar. It is actually, imo, one of the best arguments from Blanchardianism, in relating paraphilia (autogynephilia and apotemnophilia, respectively) with identity disorder. The main differences are that gender roles/norms play a central role in development of GID, that gender transition treatments have less negative impact in functionality (if one is ok with being sterile, there is little to care about apart from health risks, but health risks associate with any medical treatment in general) compared to becoming physically disabled, and, finally, that becoming an amputee is possible, but being the opposite sex is not possible. So, in simple terms, amputation for BIID is far more effective than hormone/surgeries for GID (as in latter case it can lead to an everlasting chase for impossible outcomes), but the net outcome for BIID is disputable, while in GID there is no direct impairment in functionality as a result of the treatment (apart from sterility).

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CannotIntoGenderOPcheck out /r/BannedFromGCdebatesQT•

That's interesting. Thanks!

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[deleted]•

I don’t think it’s related. Regardless transition makes trans people more functional, lopping an arm off does not make someone more functional.

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detransdykeWhy are you booing me?•

It's actually been found that it does benefit their mental state considerably. And transition also does physical harm. Quite an apt comparison if you ask me

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[deleted]•

Transition doesn’t do physical harm. At all. And mental state is only worth so much compared to a hand.

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detransdykeWhy are you booing me?•

I have two diseases that were at least significantly worsened by hormones, possibly caused (I was not symptomatic prior to hormones). Doctors tell me they've never seen anything like this before bc hormones are not well researched, and they're using a desperate population as their guinea pigs. Tell me again that "transition doesn't do physical harm". Tell all the people with botched surgeries, osteoporosis, high blood pressure, etc that they're actually a-okay, because "transition doesn't do physical harm"

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[deleted]•

You are bordering on paranoia when it comes to the effects of hormones. They just dont do that much harm, certainly no more than most routine prescriptions.

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eiellieOkay, but gender is the boot.•

Who told you that? My doctors have been pretty damn explicit about the damage that my meds could cause. Liver failure and DVT ain’t no joke.

Edit: and that’s just the TW side of things. Trans men are at risk of so much more given how important women’s health has historically been to the medical industry.

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[deleted]•

Basically every medication has a high dosage risk of liver damage. Dvt is a legitimate risk but also why hrt in trans women is contraindicated for certain medical conditions.

Edit: My familiarity is primarilly with transition from the mtf direction obviously. Most of what I know for trans men comes from exposure to steroid use and conversations with trans men . (I never did steroids obviously but I was an athalete and am a weight lifter so I have seen a whole lot of people who feel the effects)

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Hypocritical-Cunt•

Bullshit. Cancer, stroke, heart attack, uterine atrophy... you’re either embarrassingly ignorant and are talking about something you haven’t done even a bare amount of research into... or you’re lying and spreading harmful propaganda. Which is it?

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10000cockroachesgender hating•

One may experience so much psychological distress that they are less functional than they may be by having an arm less and not experiencing the distress. So the net outcome may be positive.

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[deleted]•

It takes a lot of psychological distress to make up for the functionality of a hand. Espescially as compared to losing no functionality in transition other than reproduction which most of us would never use anyway.

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10000cockroachesgender hating•

There are people who want or do commit suicide because they do not see their life as worth living. I agree that the thresshold for BIID is much higher, I for sure believe if I was experiencing BIID in the extent I am experiencing GID and it did not have to do with a minor thing (a small finger or so), I would not go for it. Part of my decision to medically transition is balancing the benefits and the costs to my life. But there are GID people who experience much more distress over their sex/gender, so I guess the same can be with BIID people.

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Onyx3311•

It depends how we define "functional". If you lose the ability to reproduce you are no longer functional in that area. And there may be other side effects of treatment as well.

Even if we just mean social functionality, a person with gender dysphoria may in some instances be able to function better by presenting as their "assigned" gender, given the discrimination trans people face.

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[deleted]•

Losing the ability to reproduce is less important a function than losing the ability to whistle would be. It means nothing.

Even if we just mean social functionality, a person with gender dysphoria may in some instances be able to function better by presenting as their "assigned" gender, given the discrimination trans people face.

Until it builds up and you eat a bullet. Make no mistake. Being trans on a long enough path only has 2 endings.

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Melissa_MajoraIdk.•

I'm assuming here that the two endings you're referring to are successful transition vs. suicide. Please let me know if I'm wrong.

Do you believe that detransitioners were never trans?

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[deleted]•

Correct.

And yes I think anyone who detransitions for anything but safety wasn’t actually trans.

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margiejamisonGold Star TERF•

I can’t say I think a person asking the rest of society to lie to and about them is really functional. If we had to lie and say a man was Jesus returned, would that make him functional or the people indulging him dysfunctional?

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InfamousDrummer•

Doctors also call it xenomelia. Here is an interesting article on the disorder: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3634160/

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CannotIntoGenderOPcheck out /r/BannedFromGCdebatesQT•

Thanks1

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[deleted]•

It's real but it is different than gender dysphoria and the treatments aren't really comparable, I think.

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bladebreakers•

Why is that, in your opinion?

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[deleted]•

Whenever I hear about body dysmorphia, etc, it seems like the people who suffer from it genuinely believe things about their body that aren't true. Sufferers of anorexia will believe they're fat when they aren't.

GD seems different because in most cases, people with it are very aware of their sexed bodies and that's what causes the distress to begin with. They see what is there and need to change it in order to function.

Just one take really.

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10000cockroachesgender hating•

That is body dysmorphia/anorexia etc, not BIID. BIID people have a perfect understanding of their bodies, they just want to be amputees, in the same way that GID people know they are X sex, they just want to be Y.

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CunningSquirrel•

This is not necessarily the case. A fair number of BIID people do not recognize the limb neurologically or they experience some form of phantom pain in their perfectly healthy limb.

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[deleted]•

In that case. I don't have a problem with them becoming amputees if it genuinely increases their wellbeing.

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CannotIntoGenderOPcheck out /r/BannedFromGCdebatesQT•

That makes sense.

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