How to Manifest Physical Appearance Change

I've gotten about three dozen people asking my via private message, chat and on the forum to expound how to set your intention for a physical appearance change because of a guy who I helped grow 7" in 7 months. As promised:

#Physical Appearance Change

This one has the highest potential to be very tricky for three reasons:

One: Because in mass consciousness belief is so low.

Two: The true essence of your desire is that you want to feel good and be loved by others. LOA teaches you can have the essence of what you want, which can come through countless paths, but may not look like what you think. &

Three: Because if you are not happy and satisfied with where you are now, you can't get to a place where you will be happy (on any subject). Let me say this in a few different ways: You can't go on an unhappy journey on the way to a happy place. In order to get to Happy-Town, you have to be on Happy-Road. The road to Happy-and-Satisfied-with-your-Body Town is on Happy-and-Satisfied-with-your-Body Road. That is your hurdle of resistance. And it's a big one. If you are genuinely happy and satisfied with your body, why would you be feeling bad/lack about it? And we also know from LOA teachings, you can't take action from a place of lack without it backfiring on you.

#In-depth:

1: Someone has to be first, so why not you? Not as big of an issue.

2: Now, you are going to have to be honest with yourself. The real essential reason behind what you claiming you want is to please others. You want to feel/be more attractive to/for "them." So they'll love you. If you were the last person on earth, would you still want this physical appearance change? No - and if you can't admit that, you are never going to have enough self-awareness to change. And do you see how slippery of slope living for others, changing yourself for others is? It's not a good way to pattern your life. In fact, it's the worst thing ever. Because 100% there is someone out there that doesn't like your height/weight/skin/face/eye color/hair length, etc. You can spend your whole life trying to please others and you will never succeed.

If you were in a life-long committed romantic monogamous marriage right now, and you said, "I wish I could change ______________" And your spouse (lovingly) flipped out, vehemently forbidding you EVER even THINK about changing ____________, because they LOVED LOVED LOVED that about your physical body, and teasingly threatened if you ever changed it, they'd leave you RIGHT NOW, how would you react? Well, I have news for you, because beautify is in the eye of the beholder. And there are people who love love love your body just the way it is. And do you want to be who you are, AND please your beloved, or do you want to change it for what someone else (not your beloved) thinks is "more" beautiful?

What women think is beautiful about women (and men) is vastly different than what men think it's attractive - and vice versa. Countless times women change trying to be more attractive to men, only to realize that men don't care, don't notice, and most likely, don't even like the change.

The bottom line with this one is; if you want to be more beautiful for the purpose to attract a romantic partner, this is NOT THE PATH! Everyone gets to like whatever we want. For every body type, there is someone out there that LOVES it. Example to ponder: Let's say you're a woman and don't like your small breasts, and there is the man of your dreams (who you haven't met yet) is over the moon about them. In fact, it's a deal-breaker for him. But you change your body because you think ALL men want larger breasts and he sees you and thinks "almost, but too big breasts" and passes you by. Are you cool with that?

Do you want your lifelong romantic partner to be thrilled with you, exactly the way you are OR do you want the toxic fake beauty industry to think you are more attractive?

I just want you to ponder those thoughts going forward.

3: Love your body, as is. You HAVE to get there first.

SO, you can see how this one can be very tricky.

#Action Plan:

You are going to have to start loving your body, where it is now. Genuinely satisfied on a soul level, not just happy-sounding words. So get your notebook, and start writing: Things I love about my body.

Do this for a set amount of time each day. Write until you can't think of anything anymore. But don't stop there, keep trying to add more items that you love. YES, you will often just be thinking "what else do I love about my body?" over and over again for several minutes without writing. Which is a GOOD thing. Force yourself to STRETCH. Yes, you do this each day. It is so good for you to spend all this time thinking thought that you love about your body. Now, eventually, you are going to get to a tipping point and be sitting there in the middle of the day and thoughts will start to hit you, "OH, yes! This is another thing I love about my body!" A few hours later "That too! I sure do love THAT about my body! I can add this to my list!" And do that. When you least suspect it more thoughts are going to start to come. More things that you love about your body. THIS IS A GOOD INDICATOR! Celebrate this day, because now you have officially started to tune yourself into viewing your body in the same way that you Source does. You have started to tip the scales! KEEP GOING!

Now that you've started to get in harmony with a good-feeling body, remember that the Universe already knows EXACTLY what you want. You don't need to "remind" it, write it, affirm it. In fact, multiple asking shows your doubt. (You don't order food 100 times until it gets there do you?) EVERYTHING you want, Source is trying to give you the path, the answers, the methods to help you get where you want to go/be/do. You just don't see it because of your resistance. But now you've set your intention, next is to get in alignment with your desires about an improved body, so now Source can give you the best perfect customized answers for just you. It knows all your hangups, your situation, your budget, your resistance and can navigate around ALL of that, to give you the best answer for you personally.

So as you go about life, and you continue your non-stop reading of good material, reading all interesting books that come into your path, The Universe is going to give you some VERY specific information in a synchronistic manner about your particular desire. You may learn about a certain food, supplement, diet, product, doctor, protocol or even just a new way of thinking that you will be inspired to follow to get you the essence of the results you want. Example: This guy (21-year-old Asian man) grew 7 inches in 7 months. He wasn't upset about his height, no resistant, but felt inspired to give it a try, and rendezvoused with some information about some very specific vitamin supplements that he took that worked perfectly with his belief system and body (no you can't just duplicate his Souce-inspired action plan and expect the same results) along with his joyful visualizations. Yeah, he wanted to be taller, but he wasn't upset about it, he wasn't frantic, or angry, he wasn't affirming all day every day from a place of lack, he just figured if it happened, it happened and stayed in alignment. And sure enough, it happened.

And you can too! Good luck.