Romanti-sexual?

I know, weird title, in trying to figure out if that's a thing. Kinda graphic personal feelings below, if I'm oversharing let me know and I'll remove the post. Basically just wondering if anyone elses version of porn/smut is actually just intense romance scenes that turn you on. It's super weird and hard to describe. For me, I'm not attracted to the people involved, but the intensity of a romantically sensual interaction is what I enjoy. I'm not into the people, I'm into the situation, and it's way better when I'm not involved (romance involving me isn't as arousing as fictional romance).

Anyone else? And does that fall under aego?