ARE YOU NEW HERE? Don't know how to get "started"???

Well first please read the RULES this will prevent you being banned for simple things.

Make sure you click the down arrow on all the rules and read the details.

Then read the FAQs

There is so much information there that will help you stay within the scope of our subs.

We have 3 Subs

#r/cougarsandcubs [C&C] (Primarily for discussions about relationships between older women and younger men, The Thursday Roll Call)

#r/cougars_den [The Den] (Discussions, memes, research/information, The Sunday Hunt and connecting via Dating Ads)

#r/cougar_love [CL] (Our reference sub focuses on common newbie questions, anonymous dating ads for ladies, age gap chat friends)

Looking to date or find someone here?... yes you can but ONLY in the Thursday Roll Call post in C&C, or in The Den via the Sunday Hunt post or the stand alone dating ads (please follow the guidelines, or checkout the Anonymous Ladies Dating Ads and Age Gap Chat Friend post in CL.

You must read the rules and follow the instructions for all dating ads within our subs before submitting a post. If you still need help or directions please ask a mod.

Tired of all the Fake Sπgar M@mas on Reddit???

Read this post - part 1 And then this post - part 2

While browsing the sub each post will have a colourful "flair" that categorises that post. Clicking on each flair with will bring up a list of all the posts within those categories.

I recommend clicking on and reading the blue "cub guidebook" flair to get a number of helpful tips/advice and informative posts about various topics that have been shared in the sub within the last year.

The flair is also available in the sidebar on desktop.

WELCOME!