First thing that came to mind was [Papa Roach - Last Resort](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j0lSpNtjPM8).  Doesn't quite fit all your descriptions but the dude does kinda look like Lars imo.

Sorry it's so vague. It could be alt rock or grunge just not positive

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I'm blanking out entirely on the lyrics but it was a pretty upbeat grunge song with a music video in a pretty brightly lit bar and I want to say the singer looked a bit like Lars Ulrich

[TOMT][Music Video] [Early 00s]