"Omnipotent control": What is it? Any examples?
I have no clue. Here are some places I've seen it brought up - but its almost ways in passing.
What exactly is this referring to? Is it manipulative behavior?
Definition of projective identification on APA dictionary:
in the object relations theory of Melanie Klein, a defense mechanism in which a person fantasizes that part of his or her ego is split off and projected into the object in order to harm or to protect the disavowed part, thus allowing the individual to maintain a belief in his or her omnipotent control. (source)
via Ahkhtar's Comprehensive dictionary of Psychoanalysis, Klein's Defenses against envy:
according to Melanie Klein (1957), the main defences against envy are
(i) contempt and devaluation,
(ii) omnipotent control, and
(iii) narcissistic withdrawal.
By contempt and devaluation, the subject seeks to diminish his estimation of the object.
By exerting omnipotent control, the subject forcibly takes over the envy producing qualities of the object.
By narcissistic withdrawal, the subject shuns envy arousing objects and thus reduces his suffering.
Though evident in individuals with all severe personality disorders, the use of these mechanisms is most marked in narcissistic personalities.
Akhtar, Salman. Comprehensive Dictionary of Psychoanalysis (p. 71). Taylor and Francis. Kindle Edition.
From Psychoanalytic terms and concepts' article on Omnipotence:
Klein (1935) elaborated on Freud’s ideas about omnipotence in her formulations of infantile mental life, describing how “phantasies” of omnipotence play a role in what she called the “manic defense” against the anxieties of the depressive position. Phantasies of total control soon became referred to as omnipotent control (Riviere, 1936). Klein (1946) later described how, during the paranoid- schizoid position, in order to defend against overwhelming anxiety, the infant splits the object into all- good and all- bad aspects with the aim of protecting good experience from aggression. As part of this split, the infant idealizes the good object, which is imagined to be omnipotent; he also maintains a phantasy that he has the power for omnipotent annihilation of the bad, persecutory object. Working within the Kleinian framework, Rosenfeld (1971a, 1971b) later described the role played by omnipotent control in narcissistic object relations. Th object, or part object (usually the breast), may be omnipotently incorporated and treated as the infant’s possession; or the mother (or breast) may be used as a container into which unwanted parts of the self are omnipotently projected.
Auchincloss, E. L., Samberg, E., & American Psychoanalytic Association. (2012). Psychoanalytic terms & concepts.
Long-term hospitalization (up to several years), concomitant with intensive, psychoanalytically-oriented psychotherapy, may be quite successful in improving chronic self-mutilators, if the treatment setting is able to contain the patient’s efforts to omnipotently control his environment by means of actual or threatened self-mutilations
Kernberg, Otto F. Borderline Conditions and Pathological Narcissism (The Master Work Series) (p. 120). Jason Aronson, Inc.. Kindle Edition.
Some fleeting references from Kernberg:
The consistent examination of defenses in the transference then becomes extremely difficult. Thus, for example, the need for omnipotent control of an object may be expressed in the patient’s unconscious feeling that when he possesses medication, he has control over the therapist.
ibid (p. 132).
Winnicott:
The mother, at the beginning, by an almost 100 per cent adaptation affords the infant the opportunity for the illusion that her breast is part of the infant. It is, as it were, under the baby’s magical control. The same can be said in terms of infant care in general, in the quiet times between excitements. Omnipotence is nearly a fact of experience. The mother’s eventual task is gradually to disillusion the infant, but she has no hope of success unless at first she has been able to give sufficient opportunity for illusion.
Winnicott, D. W. (1953). Transitional objects and transitional phenomena; a study of the first not-me possession. The International Journal of Psychoanalysis, 34, 89–97.
Normal behavior vs omnipotent control?
How is having "life goals" not omnipotent control?
Throwing an egg at a car's windshield while someone is driving gets control of the driver's emotions. They're red in the face - the egg thrower made it happen.
Discussion
Where are some more papers on this subject? What are some ways omnipotent control happens in real life?
Posted Mar 23, 2022, 9:29 AM UTC · edited
I don't know if this helps, but my understanding of most of those definitions is that it's a phantasy of omnipotent control, so whether or how it plays out in real life won't necessarily be literally omnipotent.
Having life goals isn't literally omnipotent control because you don't have control over all the things that will affect your ability to execute them. You could be someone in quite an omnipotent state of mind, who behaves as though you believe you can just make them happen; or you could have quite a different attitude.