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Grevas13

God works through imperfect people.

Apologetics

I want to talk about this idea. Sparked by an exmo thread about Patrick Mason.

As an apologetic that allows room for the Church to still be true from a believers' perspective, it's great.

But what if a prospective member has reservations about Joseph Smith and other prophets marrying and in some cases fathering children with minors? Is it reasonable to expect a person to believe this?

How can you tell what's from God and what isn't? How is an external, non-member observer supposed to react to a member who acknowledges that LDS prophets married children, if that member still reveres the perpetrator and implicitly trusts every other thing they've done? How is this apologetic different from FLDS members excusing Warren Jeffs' sins?

Is there space for Joseph and Brigham in the Church? Should there be? And if there is, how will the Church overcome the deeds of those prophets? Can the religion fill the Earth while accepting these men as instruments of God?

Posted Sep 15, 2022, 5:39 PM UTC

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rje123•

I get where Patrick is coming from because it is true that the prophets/disciples of the Bible were not moral exemplars (e.g., Peter, David, Abraham, etc.)

But I have issues with this apologetic because it contradicts Mormon Scripture, namely D&C 121:36,37

36 That the rights of the priesthood are inseparably connected with the powers of heaven, and that the powers of heaven cannot be controlled nor handled only upon the principles of righteousness.

37 That they may be conferred upon us, it is true; but when we undertake to cover our sins, or to gratify our pride, our vain ambition, or to exercise control or dominion or compulsion upon the souls of the children of men, in any degree of unrighteousness, behold, the heavens withdraw themselves; the Spirit of the Lord is grieved; and when it is withdrawn, Amen to the priesthood or the authority of that man.

I interpret that if you are covering your sins, gratifying your pride, or exercising control or dominion that you are no longer entitled to the priesthood/authority and therefore cannot be authoritatively speak for God.

I see how it can be a beautiful concept that God is capable of achieving his works through very flawed people, but this line of thinking can validate any other religion and religious experience.

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Grevas13OP•

I hear the comparison to old prophets a lot. I don't think it's valid. Being a drunk or a philanderer is one thing. Marrying children is much worse. Growing up, I wasn't sure whether child rape or murder was the greater sin.

A believer suggesting this is suggesting that the sins are comparable.

I like the verse you shared. Forgot about the dominion and compulsion part. Joseph and Brigham certainly both exercised unrighteous dominion over their wives.

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I think the "cover our sins" part is the key to recognizing that neither Joseph or Brigham were trying to live up to the doctrines of the mormonism. Joseph flat out lied in public about polygamy and also lied by keeping it hidden from his wife on several occasions. Brigham hid polygamy from the world for 8 more years, and he also engaged in what could be considered obstruction of justice by preventing members from speaking to federal investigators of the Mountain Meadows Massacre until he had secured an immunity agreement.

edit: changed "8" to "6" and then "8" again (math problems)

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NotTerriblyHelpful•

Yep, the “god uses sinful men as prophets” apologetic doesn’t work with Mormonism’s concept of worthiness.

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On this. The Bible is full of godly men, who sinned and we see the results of their sin. Abraham wasn’t allowed to enter the promised land. David’s child with Bathsheba died for his sin. And so on and so forth. Many of these men repented for their sin.

JS, BY, and others never did. They cemented their sins as building blocks of their religion, and demanded other to do the same c or risk losing salvation.

“Only with polygamy can you be saved” ring a bell?

Want to tell what isn’t from God? Here’s a start: a man of God won’t tell you that your salvation rests on your doing what God and scripture has called sin multiple times.

There is no comparison between the godly, sinful, REPENTANT biblical characters vs Joseph Smith and BY.

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wildspeculatorFormer Mormon•

That's kinda the problem, isn't it? If no amount of wrongdoing can disqualify someone from being "god's mouthpiece", then why was there a need for a "restoration" in the first place?

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sharing_ideas_2020•

Yeah i mean under that logic anyone could be “gods mouthpiece” and communicate eternal “truths” all while raping, murdering and plundering, because at the end of the day what the apologists want to say is: truth is truth no matter where it is found … well yeah, I think any Tom dick or harry would agree with that, but that also makes it so that the church is not unique to having truth and it all just, well sucks

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Defenistrat•

This.

Every argument I have heard -- and even a few I used to tell myself -- for why God could make The Church work with imperfect men would suggest that the restoration is unnecessary and we should have stuck with Catholicism.

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I have no problem with the imperfect people line. But what I do have a problem with is the types of imperfection we’re being asked to swallow as acceptable when juxtaposed against the invasions of privacy and moral terpitude leadership at all levels imposes on the members. This is the flaw in the argument. I have sat in many a disciplinary council and watched as members flayed themselves for their sins, yet we excuse sins of a greater magnitude by people who were in power. That is not right. Jesus would not accept that kind of hypocrisy. We should not accept it. I refuse to accept it.

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Grevas13OP•

Good point. Another user mentioned that Biblical prophets are often brought up to support the point. But there's a difference between a drunk and a sexual predator. One is guilty of a heinous crime against children, the other has moderation issues.

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Add to that what seems to be very limited institutional compassion for sin and sinners. I don’t recall Jesus ever taking a hard line against sin other than those who breached what was effectively D&C 121 as quoted earlier. Those are the real sinners: the ones who claim righteousness but are really just advancing their own dominions.

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Defenistrat•

I have no problem with the imperfect people line. I have no problem with the idea that God could use imperfect people to keep an organization He established to keep running. I'm not against the idea of the receiving revelation concerning doctrine and commandments.

But I am against the idea of "never apologizing." The concept of the second anointing and believing The Church's leaders are infallible give those leaders a superiority complex. The Church does not teach its members to follow God. It teaches them to follow these imperfect men.

It doesn't teach its members to build a relationship with God.

It teaches it's members to place an imperfect man between themselves and God.

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Amen, brother or sister. Too many don’t get this.

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voreeprophet•

Not just imperfect. They're, like, the worst people. I mean, I'm "imperfect" but I've managed to live decades without sleeping with teenagers or other men's wives, fabricating "translations" of ancient documents by historical figures, running a scam bank, and so on. That's Joseph Smith, a very bad person.

I've also managed to avoid going around telling false stories about near plane crashes, telling people in poverty that they have to give me money to get out of poverty, telling people that their family members who don't worship me are lazy and lax, systematically discriminating against LGBTQ people, being a leader in an officially racist organization, etc. That's Russell Nelson, a very bad person.

They're not just imperfect people! They're liars and manipulators and abusers. Just say that, Patrick Mason. I'll respect you when you call a spade a spade and tell people that you support the Church even though it's run by liars, manipulators, and abusers.

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Grevas13OP•

I agree with a lot of what you said. I held back for 2 reasons. One, to encourage believers to discuss. And two, to keep myself from veering off course.

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sailprn•

I never expected Joseph or Brigham to be perfect. That is a VERY lame argument. I just expected them to be GOOD. Either they were evil men, or God commanded it. If God commanded it, then I have a higher system of morality than He does. If that is true, He doesn't deserve my worship.

It's actually a pretty easy concept to grasp.

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Grevas13OP•

Bonus thought: Patrick Mason says he doesn't believe polygamy was from God. Modern temple sealings are an outgrowth from that practice. Without suggesting God works in mysterious ways and did it to ensure only the righteous would believe, how can we be sure it isn't a 200 year mistake?

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Hogwarts_Alumnus•

He specifically said he believes the first half of D&C 132 but not the second half. Which...it's all supposedly Jesus speaking, so to be able to just find the parts you don't like of God talking to be, I think he said, errant, is...it was mind boggling to me.

I like Patrick Mason. I really appreciated his honesty. I appreciated him not putting "lipstick on a pig" regarding polygamy. But, how he holds onto belief is beyond me. He's created his own Mormonism that is unrecognizable from the correlated version. I think the last third of part 2 was a master class in mental gymnastics. Parts of the BoM are literal, some aren't, there may be Nephites, but Jaredites are a myth, though no evidence so far?

I don't care how much he says his job doesn't hinge on believing, I don't personally think Patrick would believe if he didn't grow up Mormon. He has had a conclusion his whole life and not let any evidence to the contrary pull him away from that conclusion. It's how Laker fans still loved Kobe no matter who he raped. Mormons love Joseph Smith. He's their guy. Patrick knows Joseph was predatory in his behavior towards underage girls, but you gotta still put your hands together for Brother Joseph.

I wish John had gotten to the meat of things sooner and pressed him a little more (overall I thought it was a great example of respectful dialogue and think John did a good job). I mean Patrick wasn't afraid to call out specific quotes of John, I think John could have held Patrick's feet to the fire a little more.

At the end of the day I really admired Patrick for being honest about so many things. I also was really disappointed in how much he contorts reality to avoid the only logical conclusion. Come on, Joseph got Jesus' words right for half a section, but then filled in the rest with his own desires to bed a lot of women? And Jesus was cool with that? And every successive Prophet hasn't ferreted out and removed where Joseph slipped in his sexual predation? Jesus wants His Church to have that as the only revelatory source for their most important doctrine of eternal families? Come on Patrick, that's silly.

Edit: It tells us all we need to know that he doesn't put these books on his CV.

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Zengem11•

I just don’t get how polygamy can both not be from God, and that Joseph didn’t violate the unrighteous dominion clause that would disqualify him from leadership.

How does Patrick rectify those two things?

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Grevas13OP•

He ignores that problem. You'd have to, if you start with A) Joseph's predation was morally wrong, and B) the Church is true.

If those two things are true, and if manipulating women and children into marrying you is unrighteous dominion, then unrighteous dominion doesn't disqualify a prophet. And you can't say that out loud, so you ignore it.

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Zengem11•

And to think I was wracked with guilt for leaving my apartment two minutes late on my mission. Either God is way less petty than we’ve been taught or the church went into apostasy once polygamy entered the picture.

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This is kind of where I'm at. First, I came to feel / realize that I absolutely did not believe that the priesthood ban was from God. Likewise, I felt/feel that Nephi and other BoM prophets were racist. But I could live with that, because that didn't necessarily suggest that the temple and Joseph Smith weren't right. It meant that the Book of Mormon wasn't as perfect as I thought, but it didn't mean that the Book of Mormon wasn't a real historical record.

Now, I feel that polygamy was also not from God. Specifically, I read the accounts of Joseph Smith's wives and found a pattern of abuse and manipulation. But this realization is far more embedded in the earliest origin of the church, and *especially* the temple.

Oddly enough though, I can't get to the point where I can imagine not wearing my garments. I always struggled with the temple and don't think I will go back, but I have an extreme discomfort with thinking of not wearing my garments. (To be clear, I think this is psychological not spiritual, but it is still very powerful).

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Grevas13OP•

Over on the exmo sub, we congratulate people on their first cup of coffee. Because that psychological block shows up a lot in us. When I left, i had a nagging unease for a long time. It was a good day when I realized I couldn't remember the last time I felt guilty of something.

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FaithfulDowter•

Try Soma underwear for one day. Then a couple of days. It’s psychologically liberating.

I will now apologize for speaking to a woman about her underwear. My wife started wearing Soma underwear about 18 months ago and never looked back.

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Haha thank you! :)

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Welp, what difference does it make what PM believes is or isn’t from God? Neither do 99.999% of exmos and we are as likely to have authority to ripe pages out of “scriptures“ as he is. Apologists have no authority to change doctrine. They just try to concoct a sugary syrup for the poisonous, known to be lies, teachings.

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Grevas13OP•

It doesn't make a difference to me, but it does to some. I'm just asking questions. Hoping I'll hear something that makes it make sense.

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DoccreatorQuestioning the questions.•

I think if there is one thing which former members and current members can agree on, it's the imperfect nature of the leaders at the top. However, when it comes to criticizing past or current prophets, there is a proverbial line drawn in the sand.

Is there space for Joseph and Brigham in the Church?

For the church's sake, there better be. Like it or not, they were the first two prophets of the church, and everything the church does or is today is connected to them directly.

And if there is, how will the Church overcome the deeds of those prophets?

Only by fully recognizing every aspect of their deeds and characters rather than whitewashing, gaslighting and obscuring history can the church begin to disassociate themselves from past leaders.

That same recognition needs to be applied to current prophets as well, otherwise 100 years from now, I suspect there might be similar discussions on how the future church can overcome the things that past prophets like Nelson and Oaks said and did.

Can the religion fill the Earth while accepting these men as instruments of God?

Maybe... ignoring and whitewashing the things they did certainly isn't helping the mormon religion fill the Earth.

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tiglathpilezar•

I think Warren Jeffs is arguably worse than either Joseph Smith or Brigham Young, even if the most negative possible assessment is made about the behavior of the latter two. However, they did the same kinds of things, marrying already married women, children, close relatives, mothers and their daughters, etc. To my simple mind, they are enough similar that if I will reject Jeffs for his actions, I probably should reject Brigham Young and Joseph Smith for theirs. What would it take to reject a prophetic claimant because of his bad fruits if not these things? Jesus said to know false prophets by their evil fruits.

They also both slandered women. Brigham Young even seems to have ordered murders. See

https://user.xmission.com/~research/mormonpdf/storm.pdf

for one such example. You can also read the teaching that in a mixed race family, the white half needed to be beheaded and the children killed in order to gain salvation. This was B.Y. to the Utah Legislature in 1852 and is in Journal of Wilford Woodruff. What would it take to reject based on evil fruit if not this? Did Jesus mean what he said?

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Westwood_1•

Brigham Young "seems to have ordered murders," was a well-acknowledged racist with problematic relationships with Native Americans, and had all the problems accompanying polygamy and its perpetuation - but Warren Jeffs is "arguably worse"?

Am I missing something about Jeffs?

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tiglathpilezar•

You are right. It may well be that Brigham Young was worse than Jeffs. Of course some of the other polygamist cultists were known for directing murders but I am not sure if Jeffs did this. We don't know. We do know he raped children. I think it was the LeBarons who had the murders. As I recall it concerned the identity of the "one mighty and strong". In any case, I see good reason to reject Brigham Young.

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Westwood_1•

Very good point. Yeesh. How to compare child rape in the modern era… Both very very problematic.

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Court_of_Bobo•

It was an interesting thing my journey away from the LDS church. Through my doctrinal study I decided it was currently in apostasy. Much like the Pharisees at the time of Christ. Holding to their own traditions and corrupting the word of God. Drawing near with their lips but hearts far from Him. Denying the power of the atonement and exercising unrighteous dominion. Being older I also saw the lies and cover ups from what I was taught as a primary child and youth and what they were claiming.

Discovering what I felt was an apostate state, my next question was “when did it happen?” So I went backwards. Prophet by prophet. Hidden works by hidden works. I didn’t believe polygamy was of God so that was a huge jump back. So I was only left with the LDS church being true up to Kirtland before it entered apostasy (in my mind).

I had to dive deep after that and find out if it was ever the “one true church”. I decided it wasn’t.

Look, the LDS church has great teachings but they CAN own their errors. People can worship anywhere. Of course to do that they would have to admit prophets today don’t speak for God (as they shouldn’t). Prophets prophesy, they don’t dictate. I think I could have worshiped in a Church that owned the weaknesses and sins of those who came before—but they don’t.

I couldn’t reconcile it. I could for a long time with the classic conversation stoppers “just have faith”, “God will make all things known”, “Doubt your doubts before you doubt your faith”, “remember those feelings you had when you found out the Book of Mormon was true—if the Book of Mormon is true then Joseph Smith was a Prophet and this is the true Church.” “Are you praying and reading your scriptures every day?” “Only seek answers through church approved sources for they contain the truth.”

I mean, there are so many things I told myself! COVID changed lots of things. When all was quiet and I was teaching my early morning seminary kids via zoom without any support from SLC, the noise was gone and it was just me and the scriptures and God trying to find joy with some depressed kids. Suddenly the atonement became much simpler and everything else man made. That’s my story as I saw both sides.

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GordonBStinkleyFaith is not a virtue•

I'll try to give an example of how people make the imperfect people thing work.

I personally believe that science is our best process for learning the truth. But the process is only as good as the people implementing it. And no matter how good the scientist is, he will always always always have some bias that will lead to less than accurate conclusions.

Newton wasn't perfect, and his laws aren't perfect. But they are a pretty good basis for understanding the world around us. But they fall apart when you start looking at things closer. But that doesn't mean we don't still use them. We just use them within their limits.

Likewise, church leaders are just people that are trying to help us implement the gospel. It doesn't mean they are doing it right, but sometimes they say things that can help us understand the world around us a little better.

The problem that I see is that in the church, we give people authority based on rituals and vague descriptors, not on the ability to understand and teach what the gospel is. We view them as experts in their field and therefore give more weight to the things they say based on who they are. If Einstein says something to me about the nature of gravity, I'm likely to believe him even if I don't actually understand it. Likewise, if a church leaders says something about morality, I'm more likely to believe him based on his authority.

But I don't think church leaders are good moral authorities. And I don't see any reason to see the church, or even God, as morally motivated. The moral teachings of the church are secondary to belief and rituals. According to church teachings, if you are immoral, there's still a way for you to repent and get to the celestial kingdom. But if you are unbaptized, not endowed or not sealed in the temple or don't believe in Jesus, it is impossible to make it to the celestial kingdom even if you are perfectly moral.

Why do we try to talk about morals and religion as if they are the same thing? If we can separate morality for the church and god, it's a lot easier to make sense of things.

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DavidBSkate•

I don’t see why we need a restoration, if god uses creeps, why can’t the Catholic Church still be true

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FaithfulDowter•

In my mind, the Catholic Church is true. At least as true as the LDS church (and probably “truer”).

Sadly there is no True church, just true churches.

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Westwood_1•

The major problem with this apologetic is that it works just as well for Catholicism as for Mormonism.

Baptism changed to sprinkling? Washing and anointing changed to a "symbolic" washing? Ongoing restoration/revelation

Major problems with the way that past leaders have engaged in highly problematic behaviors? God is simply working through imperfect people

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Westwood_1•

My issue with the idiom that "God works through imperfect people" is that it strawmans and minimizes legitimate underlying concerns.

Clearly, no individual is perfect; everyone acknowledges that, at best, only one perfect person has ever walked the earth.

But there's a major difference between a "perfection" standard for personal behavior, and expecting perfection in the way that an individual articulates God's perfect will. We expect perfection from God, even if the person speaking for God is not perfect. Additionally, we expect the person speaking for God to be good enough to minimize the worry that they will abuse their alleged line of communication with God for personal pleasure or gain.

There is a major difference in the sins and imperfections of some of the Biblical patriarchs and prophets and the self-serving, unapologetic moral failings of Mormonism's modern prophets. As just one example, Abraham's sacrifice of Isaac involved Abraham giving up his heart's dearest desire (moral issues with human sacrifice notwithstanding). Calling polygamy an "Abrahamic test" for Joseph Smith completely ignores the fact that many men (including Joseph) actually want multiple sexual partners and are getting some amount of pleasure or temporal gain from their "compliance."

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