I get this might not be the best venue, but I got a lot of problems, and I want to talk about it.
I'm 41. Obviously, I don't qualify for residency in a 55+ community.
I also spend more time at my mom's than I'd like. It extended over a spinal surgery, but she mostly relies on me at night.
I feed her, walk her dog, get her to bed, and it's pretty much worked out okay. I'm cool with some of the neighbors, several think the dog is gorgeous (Problem is he knows it) and I thought I was on a pretty good stretch. Always knew "Hey you can't live here" which fair enough. I had a condo I could bounce to, and if I had to, sure, I'm out.
Mom mostly needed night care.
Mom went afoul of I think t