Please help. We are desperate.
My three year old is experiencing SEVERE car seat aversion and I feel like we have tried everything available to us. This has been going on for nine months and it's currently the worst it's ever been. She has no issues with the car or the car seat itself, but she comes completely undone when the straps are tightened.
She isn't able to sit comfortably unless the straps are extremely loose, roughly 5" inches away from her chest when extended - this is obviously not safe. Any tighter than this and she will fight: kick, scream, hit, throw things, nearly hyperventilate and/or vomit, and she will try to escape. She will rub her thighs and shoulders raw attempting