Defenderandcreator

u/Defenderandcreator



r/pregnant•

I just took my first pregnancy test and got a big fat positive!! I’m in disbelief. I think I’m gonna take another test or two and call me doctor on Monday to confirm. My husband is still sleeping… I kind of want to go out and get a little onesie to surprise him but I don’t know if I can do it. I wanted to share here. This month was our third cycle trying. I really want to be a mom! I have already cried this morning…. So many emotions.

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r/AlAnon•

He admitted to have been using again, this time for 2 months and I had no idea. Last time, it was for 10 months and i hadn’t known either. I mostly feel heartbroken and lost. My rational self knows I cannot be with him and endure the cycle of treatment that addiction brings on our relationship. It just really hurts and I needed to tell someone out there. I am really afraid he will die and I don’t know how to go to work and compartmentalize my life like this. Thanks for listening.

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r/tipofmytongue•

I'm thinking of an animated movie from my childhood (~15 or 12 years ago). Central character was male I think middle eastern? There's a trippy part I remember with him tumbling down some checkered patterned architecture (Taj Mahal?) And other than that it's hazy. Help????

Trying to remember other details to add as much as I can, nope not Aladdin - more abscure and the particular part I'm thinking is psychedelic almost?

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r/AlAnon•

Hi,

My boyfriend is my qualifier, however we met about 5 months into his revocery, and I have not spent time with him as a suffering alcohol in the traditional sense persay. Over time, I have pieced together parts of his story, but I haven't really heard it from him (we have been dating for 7 months now). I desire emotional intimacy with him, and attend meetings with him in support. I dont judge him or his past, and try to encourage his journey in recovery without inserting myself too much. Recently I have been stuggling with his lack of trust, and have become fixated on his 'story'. He has spoken at two speaker meetings, neither of which I attended for fear of making him unnecessarily ner

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r/Wrangler•

Hello,

My engine seized and needs replacing. Unfortunately I am not willing to pay for an entirely new engine (quoted at $4700) - instead I am looking for the best option for me to sell the Jeep at this time :(
Do you have opinions on the value and possibility of me either selling the vehicle as is (engine with need of replacing), or paying a lower price to replace the engine with a used engine, and then going ahead and selling her with a working used engine. I am unsure what to do and thought there may be some good advice here. She is a 99 Wrangler manual - thanks in advance

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r/AlAnon•

Hi, this is a cross post that I just posted in r/alcoholicsanonymous and was referred here. Your insight is very much appreciated. I am not an alcoholic in recovery, my SO is. I am really proud of him and his commitment to his personal health and recovery, & am wondering what insight some of you may have that I might not have considered. I want to know if there is any advice you have for me to act in the most supportive way possible during his journey. I know it is not my fight, and in no way intend to make his recovery about me. Rather, I want to avoid any missteps that I can, and be privy to any 'unwritten rules' in a relationship like this that is a little bit of uncharted territory f

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