I'm 29F and this happened over the last year. I really need an outside perspective because I'm still struggling to process it.
When I joined my company in February 2025, I was already in a relationship (let's call him S.. 26M). During my first few weeks, I met a colleague (let's call him Ashes...26M). We instantly connected. I developed a crush on him, but I never acted on it because I was already committed to someone else, and I felt even admitting my feelings would've been unfair.
In August, my relationship with S ended. It was a horrible breakup that completely shattered me. During that phase, I had a casual physical relationship with another colleague (S2... 23M). It was purely casual
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