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I have a male friend that is approaching 30 and never dated. He wants to, but feels like he missed the boat and has a lot of anxiety about trying now, so he’s basically given up. He’s not an incel or misogynist at all. If anything, I think this has probably made him less objectifying of women than your average man (which I realize isn’t saying much...) He’s funny and kind. He has a stable job and friends. No anger issues or anything like that. Honestly, I think he’d be a catch for a lot of women. I’m curious what advice other women would give him. If you are/were dating, would you give someone like this a shot? How would you prefer he share this information?

I mean, I'm not really into disco, so maybe that's the hangup, but it just didn't feel particularly special to me. Maybe I'm just old and crusty, but I've been in plenty of clubs with good sound systems and DJs playing vinyl. Is the appeal really just that the DJ isn't the central focus? Cuz, uhhh, we can make that happen anywhere. What am I missing?

My least favorite part of polyamory at this point is the constant sleeping arrangement negotiations. The core portion of my polycule is 5 people, with my anchor partner as the hinge in the W. If we all go out together, (which is pretty often) they're often left sleeping alone—and they've expressed being disappointed about that. If I choose to sleep with them, then my other partner is disappointed. On trips, I have to ping pong between two beds or we all have to rotate somehow, and it's rarely actually "even". It's never a big conflict, but it is a persistant stressor, and I honestly don't care who I sleep next to 99% of the time. I sleep next to one or the other 5-6 days a week anyhow. I'm j

So here's my situation. I bought two RVs in Texas over the last few years. One is registered in my aunt's name, the second one was never registered in her name. She then lost both titles. Since all this, I moved her up to Washington to be closer to me.

I want to sell the RVs, but I don't have titles for either of them and now we both live out of state. What do I do? Since I live in WA, should I try to get a bonded title here? Looks like I would need an inspection, which I can't get here bc the vehicles are in TX. Would a dealership possibly take them off my hands and deal with the titles?? I have plenty of proof that I bought them—emails, texts, wire transfers, etc.

Any advice is appre

My dad's SSA payment came in today and then all the money in the account was immediately withdrawn and the transation says "Close Account". WTF. Has this happened to anyone else?

Okay, I haven't actually done this, but would I be an AH if I did?

Context: I've been caregiving for my dad (66) for about 4 years and my godmother (70) for 2.5 years. Without my help, they would both be on the street.

Recently, I moved my godmother across the country to be closer to me, as I did with my dad 4 years ago. Housing is suuuuper expensive where I live, so I moved both of them into a small two-bedroom apartment. I hoped they would find some companionship in the situation, as they're both pretty lonely and they were friends way back in the day. I think that is still a possibility, but the transition to living together has been rough.

Without going into too much detail, my go

Context: I've been caregiving for my dad (66) for about 4 years and my godmother (70) for 2.5 years. Without my help, they would both be on the street.

Recently, I moved my godmother across the country to be closer to me, as I did with my dad 4 years ago. Housing is suuuuper expensive where I live, so I moved both of them into a small two-bedroom apartment. I hoped they would find some companionship in the situation, as they're both pretty lonely and they were friends way back in the day. I think that is still a possibility, but the transition to living together has been rough.

Without going into too much detail, my godmother has been pretty unstable—mentally, emotionally, and phy

Anyone here like troubleshooting component interactions? This one is driving me up a wall.

I'm working on this dropdown component, which has two nested components—an input and a listbox. Simple enough, right? For some reason, the interaction breaks when the inputs are nested instances but works perfectly after I detach them. Any idea what's going on here?

If you know of any retired camps looking to sell/give away their old gear, particularly on the west coast, please lmk! 🙏🏻

1. I thought announcing lineups was banned a few years ago. Was that not the case? Was it just discouraged and no one listened? IIRC they're not in the WWW... Was that the only line drawn?
2. I heard a rumor that the org is going to fine sound camps for bringing in international acts in an effort to reduce carbon emissions—which seems like a silly tactic, so maybe that's not the reason... Or maybe that didn't happen. Has anyone heard of this?

What would you do if you found out another designer was taking credit for your work in their portfolio? A designer I recently worked with lists projects in her portfolio that she had nothing to do with when we worked together. One of which I asked for her input on repeatedly and was ignored. It irks me because it's completely disingenuous. On the one hand, it doesn't actually affect me, but on the other hand, I believe we should hold each other accountable and advocate for integrity. Should I message her just to say, "Hey, I noticed this and I don't think it's cool"?

Hi! I'm trying to by jeans online (eep!) and I'm curious if anyone can compare Anthro Pilco sizing to Madewell! I'm a 26 in Madewell and Levi's skinny jeans, but I'm not sure how Anthro will compare. Does anyone have experience with this brand?

Backstory: My nesting partner and I have been together for 10 years, open for 8. We were in a V-triad for nearly 5 years with a person I considered a platonic life partner and now would describe as a soul sister. In that situation we were all friends for a few years and then moved across the country together before she and my NP even started dating...

This is relevant bc my NP is fond of this live-in triad dynamic and it is his ideal configuration. I like communal living (for instance, we bought a house last year with another couple) but I prefer to have some space between my romantic relationships.

He is currently dating a person that I have been friends with for a few years—we have a lot