Ill_Analyst_2024

I have an ex from about 14 years ago that continues to pop up in my dreams semi regularly and I am really trying to figure out if there is something still unprocessed from this relationship I need to work on or what!

A little backstory and then I'll talk about what a typical dream is like (tried to keep as brief as possible!)

We were together (or friends with benefits), on and off, for about 3 years. The first 6 months he was really sweet and clearly really into me, he just didn't like how quiet I initially was around his friends. Randomly after 6 months he broke up with me over the phone. I was devastated, and looking back, really didn't handle it well. But since then, we would be togethe

I just started a postdoc three months ago, but it's only a 15 month post doc so I am already sort of on the job hunt. I would love to stay at this institution. My family really wants to stay in the city we're at because of family support (have two young boys and both set of grandparents are nearby and involved!) and I like the research being done at this institution.

I recently met a professor that is doing research I'm really interested in. We have a 30 minute coffee chat set up for next week. I just found out their department is actually hiring an assistant professor. I WOULD LOVE THIS JOB! But I am not sure how to proceed - should I pretend I don't know they're hiring but express my i

My husband and I have been together for 15 years and have two young children under the age of 3. We've never discussed politics much but always have been on the same page with things for the most part, I've always just been more progressive than he is. A few months before the election I said something about being afraid of trump wins and he disclosed he's going to vote for trump. It came out of nowhere! At first he said he didn't want to but had some serious grievances with democrats, but now all of a sudden he's defending everything he says and does!

I keep trying to talk to him about things and he instantly gets angry, defensive, and shut down. I think I'd be ok being married to someone