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Please tell me if I'm being unreasonable or not. Im (41f) exhausted raising a three month old and exclusively pumping while my husband (40m) wants us to attend three separate Christmases.

Long story short in the span of 4 days my husband is expecting Christmas miracles. I'm tired, dealing with health issues and pumping every 2 to 3 hours because my little bub wouldn't latch properly. My baby is the light of my life but she is not a good sleeper and gets overtired easily. When she's overtired she is very fussy. We live beside my parents as they gave us our house so we will be spending Sunday with them to celebrate Xmas. We also are seeing his mom's side of the family Xmas day which has been

Please tell me if I'm being unreasonable or not. Im (41f) exhausted raising a three month old and exclusively pumping while my husband (40m) wants us to attend three separate Christmases.

Long story short in the span of 4 days my husband is expecting Christmas miracles. I'm tired, dealing with health issues and pumping every 2 to 3 hours because my little bub wouldn't latch properly. My baby is the light of my life but she is not a good sleeper and gets overtired easily. When she's overtired she is very fussy. We live beside my parents as they gave us our house so we will be spending Sunday with them to celebrate Xmas. We also are seeing his mom's side of the family Xmas day which has been

Hi all, how often do you pump at night? I've been pumping every time she feeds but when my partner feeds her for the night I have bigger pumping gaps but never exceeding 5 hours. During the day i pump every 2 to 3 hours. I also throw in cluster pumping occasionally. I'm right by the 12 week mark and my supply at night is dropping. Is this normal? I've been trying to increase my supply for ages as I still supplement with formula... so this drop is sad. I only produce about an ounce an hour and she is on the higher end of milk consumption. I would love to be able to feed her 100% breast milk but it's just not happening.

I was about to be induced today. I'm 41 years old and pregnant. I wasn't able to get any sleep the night before and I was nervous. I had a student shadowing the nurse which was fine until she started playing the 20 questions game.

They decided to put off my induction because they were too busy so they were doing a bunch of other tests. While doing the tests she starts grilling me, "what do you do?" I hate this question on a good day. So I was likely visibly annoyed as I just wanted quiet or at least not discussion on issues that have no relevance to being induced. I go, " I used to be a counselor but I'm now on long term disability for MS." She gives a blank stare and then she goes, "awww d

Hi all,

I'm kind of freaking out. I just renewed my license and they asked me if I had any medical conditions and I said no. After I realized I should have probably told them I had MS but MS doesnt effect my driving. I didn't want to have to do a medical test when I knew my driving was not impacted by MS. I've been relapse free since 2017. Is this going to be a huge problem? Do you always share you have MS?

Please tell me I'm being hormonal. I'm 6 month pregnant. (39f) and my partner (40m) and I have been together for 2 years and we are engaged. Things have been going amazing but the only issue I had is he has a lot of female "friends". I have a shit ton of baggage so I was uncomfortable with it at first. They were also all beautiful. He reassured they were completely platonic and always were. So i let it slide. Personally, I am very cautious of opposite sex friends and keep boundaries strong. I am pretty traditional that way.

Anyways, I later find out that he had crushes on almost all of them prior to us dating. He would call them beautiful and try to date them. When I confronted him about

Please tell me I'm being hormonal. I'm 6 month pregnant. (39f) and my partner (40m) and I have been together for 2 years and we are engaged. Things have been going amazing but the only issue I had is he has a lot of female "friends". I have a shit ton of baggage so I was uncomfortable with it at first. They were also all beautiful. He reassured they were completely platonic and always were. So i let it slide. Personally, I am very cautious of opposite sex friends and keep boundaries strong. I am pretty traditional that way.

Anyways, I later find out that he had crushes on almost all of them prior to us dating. He would call them beautiful and try to date them. When I confronted him about