I love my girlfriend, but she isn't comfortable with me wearing a plug during the day; to work, while doing chores, talking to people etc. I said it's just something that feels comfy and isn't fully a sexual thing, but that just made her feel weirder about it.
It's a fairly new relationship and we've discussed kinks. She's ok with the idea of us both wearing them during sex, but just not throughout the day.
I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable, but I'd like to use it during sex and then just keep it in afterwards while we cuddle, watch tiktoks, talk etc to normalise it a bit - of course if she asks me to take it out, I will.
I have a feeling it's just the idea of it that fee