Hi everyone. TLDR ... I'm not out to my sibling but I just secretly had top surgery last month. He's out to me and wants top surgery but has only recently learned of it. How do I support him and help him make the right decisions when he's still early in understanding his identity?
Longer version....
So, I'm trans, and I've known since ages that something was different about me. But it really solidified around 2012/2013. I had the opportunity to pursue various aspects of medical transition, but I didn't, because I wanted to be certain. I also did not fully socially transition and I never came out to my family. In 2016 I left the United States and spent 7 months living abroad. During this ti
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