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This is a rough topic for me because it’s basically me admitting to how much I suck as a boyfriend . I’m 26 and I’ve been in 3 serious relationships... the first relationship (age 16-21) I was very immature and constantly made decisions that pissed her off such as partying and being in the streets.i tried to change my ways to late in the relationship and she left me for good. She really was my everything and her leaving me broke me to pieces. I gained a bunch of weight , became an alcoholic , and even was doing a bunch of drugs . Still to this day I know I messed up with her and it bothers me. My second serious relationship was this girl who was the complete opposite as my first relationshi

I see everyone talking about decarbing at 250+ for an hr plus??? Why so long? I decarb my flower for not even that long and my edibles turn out great. I decarb my shatter at 225°F for about 25 mins?? Am I wrong?