SamGlass

u/SamGlass


r/SuicideWatch•

I want to ask for help but I dont want to.  Some people have helped me already and I failed.  Why would they help me more.  I'm only going to be criticized and admonished if I ask for more help.  I'm afraid that if that happens I'm not going to be able to resist the urge to off myself.  If I ask for help and people reject me and remind me I've already used up the help it's going to make me feel so much worse than I do at this moment.  I feel so trapped and no way out. Some pople want me to leave my spouse in exchange for help but if I did that I really dont know how I could live with myself I know he struggles too I dont want to abandon him in exchange for help. If I do that I might as well

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r/selfimprovement•

I grew up in such a weird lifestyle that I don't adjust well in longterm social situations...like jobs. In relatively brief social interactions I can mask, but once people start probing me for personal info I just want to flee. I do my best to lie but at the end of a conversation in which I had to lie, I just feel like a fraud and an outsider - it reminds me I'm different, riddles me with guilt and self-doubt, and undermines my confidence - which negatively impacts my work performance.

I don't know how to navigate this problem. Recently I lost a very good job due to this process of social deterioration. I was a manager in an office but when my colleagues struck up conversations about

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r/borrow•

Tl;dr With an $85 loan I can make my car payment, or with a $315 loan I can make my car payment and medical bill payment.  Got laid off, went into a suicidal depression for 2 weeks, now I'm back in the job market but my financial predicament is far worsened. Job interview this morning.  They responded to my ad, not vice versa, so it's promising. Just need a hand over this between-jobs-hump in order to preserve my credit score. You can tell me what interest it is you would like me to pay on this loan or what would realistically work for you. I can repay in full plus interest 1 month to the day.

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My car payment is due today and for the first time ever I do not have

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r/SaltLakeCity•

Tldr - Shelters that allow childless married couples; one spouse is disabled and dependent on the other so they will not be separated. I'm trying to help find them accomodations meeting this need. Yes in accordance with the rules I websearched first and have done research but I still need help learning more than I could be able to find online.

Longer version - I know a young married couple in a difficult and dangerous position. I'm urging them to relocate somewhere safer and with more opportunity. They havent enough funds to move traditionally (your standard deposit, moving truck, etc) so I recommended to them they just cut ties with their unimportant belongings and place themselves in a

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r/HomeImprovement•

Homes don't typically have urinals. I'd like you all to weigh in on this. Are there any advantages or disadvantages to a urinal in the home lavatory? I did a cursory websearch and an advantage that stuck out to me is mobility for elderly men (going to and from the sitting position is arduous). But my initial thought was it'd be hella easier to clean than a toilet - it's up off the floor, and with a good design could have limited surface area. Only disadvantage(s) that stuck out to me is evidently it may or may not need specialized plumbing? Maybe difficult to get done to code? Maybe some places won't allow it? I will research more but in the meantime thought I'd drop in here for the inpu

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r/EDM•

There's all these old songs I think are really pretty and would sound great remixed but I can rarely find the sound I'm looking for. Their version of Bridge Over Troubled Water would sound great as dubstep or trap or..idk I like anything dnb too. I found one like lo-fi chillhop version on soundcloud I liked but it only sampled like 8 seconds of vocals and the rest is just the melody.

Others I'm interested in are "Jolene" by Dolly Parton "Dark Red" by Steve Lacy "Country Roads" by John Denver

Found a Jolene that I like but it's still not quite what I was seeking.

Anyone else like remixes of these classic/country type songs? Lol

I also love anything - edm or otherwise - with choir si

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r/ukraine•

I wish I had done this sooner, because he said he thinks international transfers are now being blocked. I want to know if this is true and regardless what is the best method for sending $ to Ukraine. We've been friends a long time and I'd been wanting to send him a gift, since I finally could afford to, now I feel badly I didn't do so sooner. Is it too late now? Thank you for any advice or insights. I'm concerned about the situation there and think some extra $ could help his family, and if they dont need it right now can set it aside.

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r/personalfinance•

Tldr Gimme all your claims tips and tricks, things to look out for, etc.


I was in a single-vehicle collision w a pole in the snow in my financed 2018 car. I still owe like $14,000 on it but being financed it had full coverage. (No GAP ins btw)

I had it towed to an auto body shop and today the adjuster finally went to look at it. I noticed that all the damages he mentioned were cosmetic / structural (for example, my door is crushed) and I'm fairly certain that there is internal damage or damage to my suspension. I told him I think so but he said the mechanic will let us know if they find anything additional that needs to be repaired.

I also noted that he did not mention the damage

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