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All the money wasted on needless tests, appointments, scans, imaging, etc over the years… it makes me a whole new kind of sick. Health anxiety not only impacts your mental well being but also your finances.

35f, 200lb, had RF ablation on greater saphenous vein 4 days ago. Today was my first day back to work and I’m noticing with driving and at work that the leg that had the procedure is swelling. I hadn’t noticed any swelling while at home over the past few days recovering. is this normal as blood reroutes? Every time I sat at home I had my feet up, so the driving was the first time my feet were down and it very quickly swelled on my commute. This almost seems like more swelling than before the procedure but I know the phlebectomy sites are still new. Worried I made a mistake by having the vein ablation.

I had an RFA done on my greater saphenous vein three days ago, today my foot on that leg is very cold and almost blue looking, is this normal as blood reroutes? Does the circulation get worse before it gets better?

No explanation, just a text (of course) “tired of pretending this is working, going to stay at (friends) house” no further explanation of how long, why, what the end goal is… but the thing is, he’s coming by every other day to drop off snacks and toys for the kids, he even took our trash to the curb, this is to say, he’s doing stuff he never did during our marriage. We hardly ever saw him before he left because he was always out with his friends or hobbies when he wasn’t working. Now that he’s “left” we’re seeing him more. It makes no sense. He’s acting like nothing has changed, ignoring the elephant in the room that he doesn’t live here anymore. The kids are so confused and hurt everytime h

So most of my sales are from cheap $20 or less things, but I recently came across something I could easily sell for $100+ and I’m just wondering what kind of safeguards or advice would you recommend for listing, mailing this were it to sell? To avoid scamming. This is something that is vintage as well so not easily replaced. Thanks!

Why do people do this lol? Sure, I’d love to use my time and materials to mail this to a stranger in exchange for…nothing!

2 weeks ago my husband moved out to live with a friend because he’s said he’s tired of pretending he’s happy. No communication except one time asking if he could see the kids, now he just comes and goes as he pleases and sits here awkwardly on the couch for a few hours then leaves. His mom still comes by and visits like she always did. What is even the point of separation if we’re still pretty much seeing you as much as we always did? Shit or get off the pot honestly because the kids are so confused and so am I because he is incapable of having any kind of conversation besides meaningless small talk.

Sorry to post again so soon but I need some advice. My husband left us, and finally spoke with our oldest child, who is in middle school, about it. He told her that this is what I wanted. That’s the total opposite of the truth. Now she’s acting frustrated and angry with me and asking when I’m going to allow him back etc. this is so frustrating! I was the one who wanted to try to work it out. I didn’t ask or want him to break our family up.

My husband is hardly ever home between work and his buddies and his hobbies, and it’s been that way for 10 years. I work part time, so I was the one who did all of the staying out with them sick, school drop off/pick up, appointments, bedtime routines, etc. pretty much me exclusively for 10 years. 2 weeks ago he moved out of the house to live with a friend, and in those two weeks has came and gone back to this house as he pleases every day and has spent more quality time with the kids than he ever did in the past decade they’ve been alive. I thought full physical custody with joint legal would be the least disruptive to the kids lives if we were to file, because that’s what they’ve been used

Married for ~15 years. We have two kids and a house. Honestly I’ve been hoping he would leave for a long time but now that he has, I feel like trash. I keep seeing people talk about the “80% of women file for divorce” thing so what kind of loser must I be? He doesn’t communicate so there is never any repair to any conflict and I guess it all became too much. I told him we could talk it out but leaving would be easier for him. I’ve swallowed my feelings about him having multiple affairs, including one that he invited to our house for cookouts before I knew about them. Financial infidelity (giving $1000 to a female coworker and initially lying about it when I showed him the bank statement .

I was doing the last part of getting the gems for the door which was the lanterns. It appears the last one glitched inside the building and I can’t reach it. Can I do this over or am I pretty much out of luck?

My husband of 14 years left us last week. I admit I had become cold and quick to annoyance after several different affairs of his, but now that he’s left I just keep crying for our children. Please give me scripture and guidance to study and pray with. I would appreciate any prayers for him to change his mind, to come to Jesus and heal whatever is in him that makes him want to look outside of the marriage, and come be a family again. Pray for our kids who are so confused and anxious now. And pray for me to truly be able to forgive so I won’t be so bitter and to remember that God has forgiven me so I am to forgive, truly forgive, others.

Sorry this will likely be all over the place. We have been married since 2013, two kids, 11 and 4. He has had multiple affairs/inappropriate relationships during the marriage but I always overlooked and never let on in front of the kids. They never saw any toxic behavior in that regard. The past few years we settled into what was basically coparenting roommates. He spent multiple days a week out of the house on his hobbies.

So I just don’t understand why you would uproot your childrens’ stability when it was clear I would tolerate any behavior. He could live like he was single anyway and still left. Why do that to your kids? Just have your cake and eat it too. Not a lot has changed, except