I've been in a different city for five weeks for relocation, and my fiance is moving down next weekend.
During this time there has been absolutely no sexual discussion - she's made absolutely no effort to have some 'private time' with me either through text, video, or pictures. I know she's okay with them because she's sent me them before. She just hasn't or won't now. I have tried and she told me 'tomorrow' that night, then told me she was on her period the next day. Naturally I have no way to verify this, but I know she's used it as an excuse when it was exceptionally light or not happening before.
We had a dead bedroom for over a year. I was more or less making plans to leave when she