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Hi everyone — I’m looking for some perspective on my relationship. I’m 32F, my boyfriend is 39M. We’ve been together about 1.5 years and living together for six months. We both work from home in tech. Reposting with slight edits for clarity — hoping to get some outside perspective this time.

Things started feeling tense after I moved in. He changed our moving schedule at the last minute, became frustrated, and ended up doing most of it himself. Afterward, he didn’t make much space for my belongings and discouraged me from decorating, saying my style didn’t fit.

During disagreements, he often brings up things he’s done for me — like lending equipment or buying an expensive mattress — and us

Hi everyone — I’m looking for objective advice about my relationship. I’m 32F, my boyfriend is 39M. We’ve been together about 1.5 years and living together for six months. We both work from home in tech.

Issues started when I moved in. Despite clear plans, he changed the moving schedule last minute, became irritated, and did most of it himself while expressing frustration toward me. Afterward, he didn’t follow through on making space for my belongings, criticized my decor choices (calling one “gay”), and discouraged me from personalizing shared areas.

Since then, he frequently brings up things he’s done for me — like lending me his keyboard or buying a $10K mattress — as leverage during ar

I’m new to this so pack your patience.

I’m looking to rent my 1 bedroom apartment in the downtown core and seeing conflicting reviews about posting rentals on Facebook vs Craigslist.

I’m wondering if anyone has more experience doing this and which is better to find a respectable tenant would be? I know both are flooded with scams and I’m trying to avoid both of us getting screwed over (myself and my future tenant).

Thanks in advance for helping!!!