Victoura56

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r/CatAdvice•

Hi everyone! I’ve managed to buy my own home (yay!) which is a 2nd floor apartment thats 50% smaller than where I’m living now. I’ve got three cats who will (obviously) be coming with me, and my main concern is how to prevent their dynamic deteriorating during/after the move.

The cats in question are; Miso; a 4 year old female. Very sweet and placid, a bit of a scaredy cat but the one I’m least worried about as she manages to get along with the other two fairly easily. Has had some toileting problems but years ago and have since been addressed. Is the most accepting of PB, able to eat next to him and be in bed with me while he is also on the bed. Mochi; a 4 year-old female with a sassy pers

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r/AuDHDWomen•

Ah, vacuuming. One of my least favourite chores, but most needed since I have three cats so all that shed fur, spread bits of litter and kibble, plus my own mess...it builds up and must be dealt with. But since I work full-time and drive 1 hour between home and work, I have no energy to vacuum after I get home so normally the floors wait until the weekend for me to clean them...if I can be bothered even then. I've someone let it go for two or three weeks! I might quickly spot-clean the carpeted sections during that time, but it's still too long and very dirty; if I walk on the floor with socks on I will create 'sole' of fur on the bottom of the sock. Yikes! Having a cordless and bagless vac

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r/TrueOffMyChest•

I think I've posted here about my Mum before. Whatever. It's always the same problems with her, but now it's because my 26y.o brother has a girlfriend (26).

Bro and GF have been together for a few months now, and they seem to be good together. I don't live with the family any more (thank goodness!); Bro lives with Mum and Dad in Bro's house, and hopefully early next year or earlier Mum and Dad will be able to move out into the new place they're building in the country.

My brother had been doing rough mentally for a while; quietly depressed and feeling dull and stuck. One day a friend of his mentions that they know a girl he might like to meet, so Bro organises a meet-up for coffee with he

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r/AuDHDWomen•

Hi! I’m wondering if any one here either has used Loops or know someone who has used Loops and could give an honest review. I think I’d use the Quiet Loops, or perhaps the Engage Loops. More info below if you like to know more about how/why I’d use them.

Working in retail is so very very very noisy, and while I’d love to pop on my over-ear headphones on and blast my own music thereby increasing my focus and also blocking any and all sound that isn’t desired…thats not going to happen. I might be able to get away with air-pods, but having the volume low enough to still hear my surroundings would just mean a mix of my music and outside noises, which would be more confusing and overloading for

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r/OSDD•

Yep, I might just regret it, but he’s a wonderful manager who also experiences his own severe mental health stuff. He’s also been a successful manager for a long time, and his own bosses respect him and trust him a lot. He’s been a really good mentor since coming to where I work; my self confidence and esteem have significantly strengthened since he came and we’ve built a strong rapport.

It was nice that when I told him, keeping it succinct and relevant to work, he said that it was kinda comforting to here me talking about such serious mental health stuff, because it helped him feel not alone with his own mental health troubles. Of course he didn’t say what he was going through, but I offe

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Except for the newest bunch of ikran skins, all of the stuff I purchased from the online store is gone!

I was changing the body paint on my character when suddenly I noticed my options and colour palette choices had greatly reduced. Exited my game, went to the store, which didn’t load, went back into my game and they’re all still gone.

Hoping there’s just some small issue that will resolve itself, but otherwise I am, suffice to say, quite annoyed.

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r/HannibalTV•

I started rewatching ‘Hannibal’ and I realised just how important this show is to me personally and how it helped me . Don’t worry, this is very positive and wholesome, and no spoilers!

When I first watched ‘Hannibal’ it resonated with something deep within my core; specifically the character of Will Graham. While he’s not labelled as Autistic, he does say in the pilot episode that “My horse is hitched to a post that is closer to Asperger's and autistics than narcissists and sociopaths.” While it has been debated, confirmed, and refuted, that Will Graham is Autistic, for me personally seeing this character on screen helped me to realise that I am Autistic.

It wasn’t that I watched Will Gr

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r/DID•

Something funny

Personal Experiences

Light hearted thing I wanted to share;

We’ve been playing Baldur’s Gate 3, and can’t just stick to one character save file. We’ve started three different save files because different alters want to play different styles. Here I think we can just get on with it and play, then another alter pipes up and wants to play as a super evil dark urge. We’re bot even past chapter one for crying out loud!!!!

Will we ever finish this game?

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