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For note, I'm a lesbian. I don't mean to offend anyone by asking this question, I just realized that since coming out to some guy friends, they either treat me like a guy friend or (the people I know less) treat me with a little caution now. I realized my gay guy friend saying the same thing happened to him. Females are typically more embracing of gay guys, so I find it odd that men aren't as embracing of lesbian gals.

If you feel uncomfortable with one or the other (or both!), mind explaining to me why? If you don't feel uncomfortable with either, well, uh, good for you! Huzzah!

Don't worry about me taking offense to what you say.

This pertains to outside of OK Cupid too, but I've only encountered it in it so far.

Here's the scenario: I'll receive messages from random people or I'll message people (moreso the former since this all started) just asking to chat. I'm fine with that- talking is kind of a key step to getting to know the other person... The thing is, even if they're the one to initiate the conversation, it's always been rather one sided. I'll ask a question, they'll answer it. I'll ask another, they'll answer it. I'll try to start a conversation on a common interest? They'll reply with a few words.

I fully realize I'm overly picky when it comes to who I date, but is it right to be annoyed that the conver

Bonus points if one had red plaid incorporated in to it

(note, for a friend, not me! I'm mainstream!)