atomicbuster

I feel like I'm at an inflection point in terms of my career and I'm curious how others would weigh opportunities.

Suppose you make salary X (likely top 5% in your area) and there's a job that you can realistically get that is 2.5X to 3X your current salary (top 1%). The current job is fully work from home, low stress, and you're very comfortable with the tech stack. But the new job is known to be more chaotic and stressful as well as more prestigious and cutting edge. You'll also need to travel to the office for around a week each month.

How do you weigh situations like this?

How highly do you value your comfort?

Was browsing reddit and came upon this AITA:

AITA for telling my SIL I don’t need her parenting advice as she clearly doesn’t know what she’s doing?

It's blowing up on r/AITA and honestly the assessment that she's an asshole isn't far off but the lack of sympathy and understanding never ceases to surprise me.

This woman paid with her own money to bring her sister in law and her brother to a family event. They're dealing with a crying baby and using what I'm assuming are pediatrician backed recommendations, which honestly sometimes are more inconvenient but better for your child.

My husband is a medical professional working in the state of NC. He recently discovered that due to a clerical error with the person who schedules patients, he has been working an extra 45 minutes every single week. This was overlooked for multiple months and so far the only that has happened is the person doing the scheduling has gotten a slap on the wrist.

Are there any legal ramifications for this? Can anything be done?

How did you end getting to that point?

What happened after you were put on notice?

This happened last Monday night, and I'm still literally hitting myself over it. I'll lead up to the actually fuck up with a short backstory. I was visiting my father who lives about 150 miles away from me until Tuesday. Naturally, I updated my tinder bio to mention that I'm visiting his town for a few days and am planning to leave on Tuesday. I did this fully aware that I was trying to match with girls who were willing to hookup. Well, for a few days, the only matches I got were girls who weren't interested in a one night stand. Then 10:30 PM rolls around, and I hear a ping from my iPhone. I go to check and it turns out to be a new match. And a really hot girl at that. I look at her bio, an

I just got hit with something along those lines after seeing a girl for about a month. I'm trying to understand whether she really truly needs her space or she's just saying it because she doesn't see me as a potential boyfriend. She doesn't want me to wait for her but I want to. :(
tl;dr She says she just got out of a relationship and wants to be single. I need some perspective.
edit For those of you who are saying I think she's lying, it's not that I don't believe her I just want to know if what she said is all she was saying or if I should be reading between the lines. I don't think she's lying.