coffeeandbeaches

u/coffeeandbeaches


I dedicated the past few months to becoming a travel SB and finally gave a chance to self-proclaimed SDs in my country.

The experience I had was really bizarre, as they either treated me like a SW or their mistress. Not to mention, one time during intimacy, the words 'I love you' slipped out of his mouth (apparently, I resemble his previous secret lover - this happened on the first day we were intimate). It was pretty much exhausting, as 90% of them wanted to communicate 24/7 and expected a discount on the next PPM.

The key takeaway from my one-month experiment in my country is that they just treat me like their 'affair.' I can see how completely different it was from the ‘real sugaring

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r/dating_advice•

Me [32F] known an expat [45M - not married, but has 1 kid] in my country earlier this year. I was attracted to him and made it known and clear that my intention to date is to marry. Due to his work nature (working at oil-rig platform), it allows us to only meet once a month. Fast forward we decided to have a short vacation together for 3 days, that is when I figured that he only sees me as his friend/companion with ''benefits''. It was great he paid everything, but then I just feel there is no emotional connection between us and he's not being romantic at all (not holding hands, even when we went for a walk at the beach, he would kept distance like 50m away from me). After the vacation, I th

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Has anyone been in a long-distance sugaring situation? Is it appropriate to ask for some financial support? For context, I am only on PPM whenever meeting my SD. However, when we are not meeting, we still actively keep in touch, asking how our day was, and often I share n*des with him just to remind him of my existence or when I know he’s having a bad day, lol. I am wanting support in terms of getting a professional certificate, but is this appropriate?

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Apparently I am interested in pursuing a professional certificate and confident enough that I can do well as I have a background related to the certification. I have brought this up to my LD SD before and kinda hesitate to bring up the subject again now. A month ago he paid for our trip and gave me USD 1,xxx throughout the trip. However, we do not plan to meet any sooner. The certificate that I wishes to take will cost the same amount as what he gave previously, but I can split the course into 3 months so the cost would be on monthly basis. Should I ask for his support eventhough he will not be getting any ‘sugar’ from me (yet)?

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r/R4R30Plus•

Hello!

I am currently looking for people to talk to from time to time. I’d prefer the conversation to be decent and SFW. We can talk about anything, perhaps about your daily life (checking up one another will definitely helps us in battling the life-crisis lol), your hobbies/activities, your next adventure or perhaps you just wanna vent out, I’m all ears.

As stated, I’m 32 coming from South East Asia. I have a career that I do not favors much. I also love to keep active lifestyle. I usually go gym twice a week & I used to run and hike before. Apart from that, traveling around has been on my bucket list, glad that I managed to travel to 17 countries so far! I also like to watch comedy, ro

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This is not a discussion but more like sharing my experience. I’d like to emphasize that location plays an important role and how lucky SB are if they are coming from US or Europe region. For someone who is coming from Asia, we (or maybe its just me) often get lowballed by SD (whom are mostly from USA)

I really wish SD don’t play us dirty and being a cheapskate. I’m fully aware that most SB will kept saying ‘blocked and move onto the next’. But truth is its actually even harder to find one who is not a scammer and even hard to find one who are extremely generous. I am close enough in taking a break from sugaring as my past arrangement is not fulfilling (the sex was extremely great, but not

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r/askSingapore•

Any insurance professionals?

Career, Job, Edu Qn in SG

I would like to know what insurance professional certificate should I obtain if I want to find job in SG? Non singaporean here, have almost 10 yrs experience in insurance industry (3 years as underwriting assistant & another 2 years in R&D). Will CII be enough? I dont intend to work in life insurance.

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r/r4r•

Hey! 👋🏾 I'm on the hunt for a chat buddy. I'm not much into long-term pen pal situations right now, and I'm definitely not jetting off anywhere this year. and just a friendly reminder: let's keep it clean—no sex talk, please! 😄

About me : I am 32 years old, female, single, no kids, never been married lives in south east asia (GMT is 8+). I try to have an active lifestyle, I enjoy doing running, hiking as well as travelling. My fav place is definitely watching sunrise in Bagan from a hot air balloon.

I would appreciate if you can include a proper introduction about yourself instead of just saying hey whatsup.

Oh, and if you're curious more pics of me here : https://imgur.com/a/lU5fWoQ

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r/r4r•

Hey! 👋🏾

I’m on the hunt for a chat buddy. I'm not much into long-term pen pal situations right now, and I'm definitely not planning on traveling any sooner. and just a friendly reminder: let's keep it clean—no sex talk, please! 😄

About me : I am 32 years old, female, single, no kids, never been married lives in south east asia (GMT is 8+). Currently on the hunt finding a job after leaving a corporate world. I try to have an active lifestyle, I enjoy doing running, hiking as well as travelling. My fav place is definitely watching sunrise in Bagan from a hot air balloon.

I would be happy if you can include a proper introduction about yourself instead of just saying hey whatsup. Also plea

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