I’m an only child, so my best friend is my daughter’s “Auntie.” She doesn’t see Auntie as often as she used to, but when she does, she lights up and Auntie is the only person in the room in her mind. Auntie has been battling breast cancer for 5 years now and her battle is slowly coming to a close. She will probably pass sometime between November and February.
My daughter is almost 15 months old and has already had a few people disappear from her life without explanation (child-free friends who decided they couldn’t continue a friendship with us post-parenthood and a nanny who decided to not return after having her own son), but she was younger then and I’m not sure she really noticed