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Hi all,

My mom experienced a fall approximately two weeks ago and was admitted into a hospital and is now in rehab. She will not be able to go back to the house she was living in. She has significant cognitive decline. I am her durable power of attorney (and medical).

She's in a strange financial position. She earns a decent pension (nets approximately $5,000.00 per month) but she ran up some credit cards, still has a mortgage, and has a lien against her house, and has a car payment.

My plan is to sell her house and take care of those debts since they'll eat into any ability she has to pay for anything leaving the rest for spending down.

Does this make sense to do?

She has about 26,0

Hi all,

My mom experienced a fall approximately two weeks ago and was admitted into a hospital and is now in rehab. She will not be able to go back to the house she was living in. She has significant cognitive decline. I am her durable power of attorney (and medical).

She's in a strange financial position. She earns a decent pension (nets approximately $5,000.00 per month) but she ran up some credit cards, still has a mortgage, and has a lien against her house, and has a car payment.

My plan is to sell her house and take care of those debts since they'll eat into any ability she has to pay for anything leaving the rest for spending down.

Does this make sense to do?

She has about 26,0

Hi all - I (35m) am my mother's (79) only child. Last year my father died. He was a hoarder, abusive, and had a host of other issues. He had two daughters from a previous marriage who I'm still in touch with. Since his passing, my mother has been on her own.

Since my dad's passing, I've noticed some declines in my mom's memory as well as trouble keeping track of things like bills. I assist with a few bills which we coordinated on many years ago. During this time, she has also been making concerning purchases and has racked up a great deal of credit card debt. She's a retired teacher so she has consistent cashflow but that could easily get gobbled up.

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UPDATE / SOLUTION: I ended up going onto https://www.protondb.com/app/489830 and began combing through solutions. Not super surprised that folks here didn't know those methods of tinkering - regardless - what I did was rename the skse64_launcher.exe to SkyrimSELauncher.exe. NOTE - I changed the original SkyrimSELauncher.exe to BACKUPSkyrimSELauncher.exe in order to retain.

A few of the posts on protondb have additional steps - I'm using the most update proton, I did no additional launch options. Everything is as is beyond the rename.

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PCPartPicker Part List

Type	Item	Price
CPU	AMD Ryzen 5 3600 3.6 GHz 6-Core Processor	$199.99 @ Best Buy
CPU Cooler	[Cooler Master Hyper 212 Black Edition 42 CFM CPU Co

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