mswrinkle

hmm I'm 21f ive always been a bit of an introvert that doesn't have social anxiety and can selectively choose to talk to people, honestly I'm functioning fine but lowkey I've no desire left in life other than to sustain myself and become independent financially, like jus home office eat sleep type shi, I don't see myself travelling or going out w friends despite of having friends , and even then I like to come home before 7-8 hits. I don't like the stereotypical stuff except maybe good food ordered from zomato/Swiggy w a nice movie at home on my bed lowk, am i weird? Like i really don't see myself changing even at 30 :< cuz everytime someone suggests me to take up a hobby or gym, I really do

what's your take on both of these communities, kinda view both of them pretty opinionated on something that I find is very trivial and unimportant, i honestly have second hand embarassment when such shyt is discussed cuz- it literally is a question that one needs to decide for one's self and not have a press conference about it

title, actually it's hard for me to do dsa in java but backend and system is some what understandable in java due to its OOP structure? Or should I do mern because I'm not doing dsa in java?

Also, is it worth it for someone who has an undergrad in btech? How should one break into it?

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Okay so basically:

Frontend:

Html css js react

And what all should i understand in each? Like what should I must build before moving to next framework? Atleast for a fresher job topicwise.

Backend:

fastapi or node.js/express.js

Should I learn system design after learning basic crud api?

Postgresql or mongodb

And any other things that I must learn? Like. I don't want broad generic terms "do dsa first then do web dev" . I want to know topicwise 💔😔 please help a girl out :( 21f. I know it might or might not guarantee a job, but there must be a baseline resumé that u must have so that you mass apply and wait for interviews right. That's what I wanna know, what should my resume

financial independence, getting out of the constant mental and emotional exhaustion, the nihilism, the cynicism, the cringe at seeing displays of affection and emotional constipation to the point of achieving numbness, the feelings that a therapists non analytical solutions don't work for you, at the end you fix yourself.

I feel like at this point, I'm just seeing my life go day by day to see what life has to offer for me, do my best and then realise my best is actually mediocre. Not the brightest mind of the country, not the hottest chick, not someone coasting with daddy's money, someone who has to build shit from scratch, I don't have energy for anything. I don't feel happiness in anythin

To all the guys and girls that attended the protest:

Man I just want to say the guys there peacefully protesting was keeping women more safe than the police and all the brave girls that came there to protest, the youth of India studying in universities are with you 🙏🏼

This is masculinity at its best. We love you guys.We can not see our nation in vain.

you guys are all freedom warriors, the same blood that our ancestors had, what the goons called antinationalism even in literal teenagers and gen z that came to protest, we call deshbhakti. PERIODT.

This shouldn't stop. Police brutally beat up literal teenagers, school graders, college undergrads, AND DIDNOT EVEN SPARE young women, young

Title :(

Plus can we get some consistency tips from former lazy asses that made themselves consistent (im a current lazy ass) with anxiety to not be perfect and be average and knowing only easy medium stuff?

Why are some people so keen on trying to demean women and keep them accountable for a few actual cases that have happened, like the Siyal Goyal case or a man dying by suicide because of ₹2 crore alimony, or cry about how they don't want to be a househusband by trying to argue that women—including their own mothers who are housewives—"technically do nothing" and are simply provided for, but forget that the majority of women who actually work in India have a double burden in a traditional marriage setup—expected to both do the household work and chores and the office work (take teachers in schools, for example)?

Whereas there are countless cases of parents valuing sons over daughters, or fami

title

Cuz what the fuck was that 😭 I could only do the sql question all test cases passed without gpt i bet everyone fucking cheated 🥀 I hate OAs, nvm I wasn't prepared for it, it felt like taking a rod up your ass 😭😭AND THEIR FUCKING COMPILER DOESNT WORK AND FUCK, bet I wouldn't move to round 3 with 15 marks 💔

(21f, 3rd year btech cse-ai)

I've been thinking about this, and I feel like i would 100% regret it after yk jus giving into your desires because I'd feel like I couldn't keep my own commitment up for myself + not to mention, the dating scene is so ugh nowadays that I literally don't want to give my virginity to someone I don't look upto or respect, nor do i wanna have my first time w someone that I don't give an eff about (and since I'm introverted I rarely give an eff about someone to the point that effing someone is far fetched). And due to my own emotional constipation and avoidant nature , I know I can't sustain a relationship long term unless the guy is obviously okay with no contact for long periods of time cause

title (I'm istp, and tho I know there are nuances to everyone's personality, it kind of provides a bigger rougher picture)