plottingvengeance

A place for members of r/PeopleOfTheFuture to chat with each other

I can’t help but be so angry. They took years away from me..... from building, from creating. My FB is frozen in time as I stopped posting a long time ago, because that’s their website of choice, that’s their ground where they did some of the abuse (triangulation, silent treatment ignoring me, etc).

It never ceases to amaze me what one person can do, and I suppose that’s the reason I am very guarded now.

The truth is, it never fails to break my heart because my family and friends would post on my wall and if they only knew the amount of hell I was being put through at the time. Years, literal years.

I’ve been thinking about Shane and how completely tone deaf he is, lately. And I realized, people like him and Ryland, who hide under the guise of not wanting negativity in their lives, choose to live in an artificial bubble of “nothing is wrong here!” instead of taking actual accountability for their actions, are only digging themselves a grave.

Because, for a long time, YouTubers talked AT us and not >to< us. There has always been this air of, them being above us, for some reason. And we ate it up, we bought the merch, their books, we sold out their shows and helped prop up people who proved later on to be nothing but self serving.

Shane handled this badly. I often wonder,

Why is society so hellbent on molding us in to their hyper happy ideal?

WE are the weird ones for being upset with this BS? With all of the climate change, abuse, drama, crimes, every bad thing that happens every single day?

How are WE the weird ones when society itself is decaying in front of our eyes? But yet, because we’re not super smiley and positive we’re the bad ones? Maybe give me something to smile about, Karen.

Kudos if you can do both.

But I often find myself feeling like I need to choose between both worlds. Particularly the sites that are the textbook definition of social media (like Facebook and Instagram) can feel like a full time commitment to maintain a certain image once you’re on the site. And I am suuuuper guilty of choosing to be miserable while maintaining a good feed there before.

I have friends who are both happy online and off and often wonder how easy it seems to come to them. Perhaps some people are just more sure in their identity? Maybe it’s just an issue of self expression for me.

Curious to know what you all would choose (or have chosen) or even if you feel like that’s

Begging the Universe to be with your Tf is like being a little kid begging the parent that you want to go to Disneyland.

The parent knows it’s coming soon... in due time, and when all the necessary preparations are done.

The kid (us) has no idea and only has the concept of wanting this thing now. We need to trust the Universe to bring them to us when the time is right. So, in a way, it’s like we are kids wanting to be at Disneyland and begging our parents over and over for it to happen, while only our spirit guides/angels/Universe etc. know when that’s going to happen.

I don’t know, it’s just a thought that occurred to me today and sort of made me smile realizing how childlike I a

Is it bad if I feel like I’ve totally outgrown people I knew in high school? 25F

I feel like I can’t relate to most of them because a lot of them graduated from that same old high school (while I went to 3 different schools throughout all 4 yrs) and I find those that went to my first school are very attached to that school still and post alumni stuff etc, while for me, I couldn’t feel more apart from that.

It’s probably the fact that I went to two other schools, one of which I feel impacted my life more (in good and bad ways.... left a mark). And after all I’ve been through I feel so different from that person I used to be. But then I feel shitty because those old friends still expect t

What do you if the person you’re in to, is way more in to social media than you?

I’ve been off FB for years now (untouched account), however, the person I am interested in seems to be active there almost every day.

I want to pursue a relationship, but I’m not sure how it would work if I’m not on FB as much, since I’ve chosen to live a more digitally minimalist life and fb (for the most part) brought nothing but stress, anxiety and bad memories, as well as fueling my procrastination habits. To have chosen to keep up my “life” on there would have been like choosing to not be true to myself, and the death of my mental health. (Okay maybe that’s a bit dramatic but you get the gist, it jus

I just want to say, thank you to all the wonderful people I have met on here, or whether we haven’t even met yet.

You see, before, I only ever skimmed reddit from the outside looking in (google searches) and was too sad to even write a sentence. Plus, I was scared. What if I was a loser there too?

And I still am, you know. Haha. But as the time has gone on, I’ve had lots of laughs, and good experiences with people. Deep talks and discussions you can’t have anywhere else (looking at you, Facebook). Anyway, I’m just really glad this sub exists as well as others. It’s truly a safe space for those of us who don’t fit in or feel comfortable telling our loved ones what’s really going o

I just want to say, I never thought this day would come. 🥂🍾

(Also, think I’m more excited for this than I was for my real birthday.)

If I saw someone’s initials in a dream, could that be a sign?

That they are the one?

Especially because, in the dream, it was my toxic ex showing me this picture, but there was another person’s initials on it. Thoughts??