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I’m trying to help a family member go through the process of applying for disability and I feel like he is making it more complicated than it should be. When I first got out I went to the DAV and they did all the work. Later I needed it reinstated because I had let it lapse and I was suffering so I again went to the DAV which happens to be at the local VA clinic. The line was so long and I got tired of waiting so went to the benefits office and was in and out in less than an hour, had my appt a week later and then a couple of months had my 100% P&T.

I guess I just figured the process should be this simple for everyone and wondering if this isnt a common experience or if I was just luck

I have a three year old who really needs some socializing and fun after a long year of doing our best to socially distance. Been looking for some day camps, preferably a couple of week long ones that we can spread out over the summer. Already signed up for two sports but nothing decent seems to be available for 3 year olds, even if they are fully potty trained. Anyone have suggestions?

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And I know things still continue to be unsafe but just to ward off further comments on this, I'm vaccinated, she's already had covid recently due to a court ordered visitation. The doctor says that she is fine, as well as other members of the household and the socializing outweighs the covid

I had a severe acute pancreatitis attack about a year ago that left me in the hospital for nearly a month with an extra stay a few weeks later. It was caused by a possible gallstone (they didn't find a gallstone but decided it must have passed) and my gallbladder was removed. I also had issues with my pancreas hemorrhaging (I can't remember the terms, just know that I kept needing blood transfusions) and a small necrotic piece that must have healed or something (honestly, I put so much of that period out of mind because the pain was so horrific). I took it real easy for several months after but my GI doctor said I'd probably never have issues again since it was gallbladder related, but enc

I am 100% p&t and have recently had kids. I was trying to add them as dependents as I know there is additional pay added for them each month but can’t seem to find how or where. I know I’ve seen it before and it’s easy but I’m so exhausted I must be overlooking. Where is the first step to do this?

I ALWAYS seem to meltdown right around 5pm. Every freaking day. I get so irritable and cranky. I'm mean to my kids. We will have a beautiful day and then it's like I can't make it through the terrible 5-7pm hours. I've tried everything. I'm not hungry and hangry. Not thirsty. I've tried to prepare for it and make coping strategies but it doesn't help. I'm guessing that there's so much stimulation going on during those hours that it's just too much for me at the end of the day. Getting three kids fed, bathed, the house cleaned up, homework done, books read, tv watched, and prepared for the next day is just a lot. The kids are always loud and bouncy. It's not surprising that I just

Has anyone experienced worsening memory issues while on vyvanse? I started it a few months ago and saw some improvements in adhd symptoms but the last couple of weeks it's like I can't remember a thing. Can't even remember if I ate or not. I have a call to the doctor but wanted to see if others experienced.

Started Vyvanse about a month ago. Originally to help with binge eating but it quickly became clear that I’m likely adhd because of the effect. Became very calm, anxiety gone, finally able to easily sleep.

However this past week I’ve been insanely irritable. Like to the extreme. I’m not quite sure if it’s the vyvanse or my current situation (in Texas, out of power and water, pipes in house likely busted, dealing with all this and several kids by myself). So things have been intense. I also have a bipolar diagnosis so it’s important for me to watch out fir irritability.

For those who had this side effect, was it immediate or did it come on gradually?

I was prescribed Vyvanse for binge eating disorder to use alongside therapy. I was worried about side effects, especially because I have bipolar disorder and have been experiencing a lot of anxiety, but also sort of excited about the added energy I'd have during the day. The effect it had wasn't expected. It really calmed me, it wiped out my anxiety, it has helped give me a little better focus. My sleep has also been better. My doctor is now exploring an ADHD diagnosis.

I've spent a lot of time reading the last week about ADHD, especially when it doesn't include hyperactivity. It's like a revelation. I'm in my late 30s. I feel like so much of my adulthood has been a needless strugg

For whatever reason ubereats uses a map that sends the driver to an address one street over. Most drivers figure it out quickly but there are some who don't read the street signs and get hopelessly lost somehow. I've taken to leaving a concise note in the delivery instructions about how to go one street further and then turn. For some reason, they NEVER read it until they are lost and call me to try to figure out where they are.

Why? Does the delivery note not show up when you pick up the order? Are these drivers who just fail to read it before taking off? What's going on and how can I make this better and not spend 15 minutes trying to direct the driver from wherever they go lost o

I've been on 20mg of Vyvanse for a week. I'm also halfway through a 20 week therapy program for binge eating. My doctor thought it would be a good idea to use vyvanse during this time to help with the BED. So far, the best effect I've felt from the drug is this immense sense of calm. I'm a constant fidgeter and that is nearly gone. Some of the intense anxiety unrelated to BED is even gone or easy to ignore. However, I'm not experiencing decreased food cravings.

For those who have tried this drug, did you have to go up in dosage before it worked? Both my doctor and myself are worried about too high a dosage because I am bipolar, but we both agree that the weight and BED is important

I've been having audio issues. It often seems like there is a connection/contact issues somewhere. The audio will often stutter whether or not it's on AM/FM, apple play, or Sirius. Sometimes it will just shut off and nothing I did can get it connected again except for stopping, parking, turning off car and opening door to reset it. It can be maddening.

I'll be scheduling a maintenance visit soon but wanted to see if others have dealt with this and know what the issue might be.

I've had to report several foster parents and I'm about to report another. It makes me so furious when a foster parent does something wrong. It's always abuse. I'm so upset about this right now that my heart has been racing for hours. I wish they'd jail these assholes that think they can abuse kids in care. They suffer no consequences and most of them get to keep fostering.

Who else has had to report other foster parents? What was the result? Do you get as angry as I do when you hear of a foster parent who hurts children in their care?

I never want to be THAT parent who ends up as a rant on the teachers sub but I think I often have. It's the little things. Too much homework, unfair classroom choices, unrealistic expectations of parents. I feel like every year I send the same emails to teachers but I rarely get the response I hope for. I want this to change because I know how hard teachers have it, I 100% respect the role they play in my kids lives, but I also really want what I think is best for my kids.

What is the best way to approach these types of conversations with a teacher and not come across as one of those parents that makes you rant, and be able to come to an agreeable solution? For example, if homework is o