soundsfrombeyond

It's exactly as the title sounds. This could probably go for any type of relationship (same-sex, heterosexual, open, etc...), but lots of my friends, and even my partner and her sister, have joked that I'm the "girl" in my relationship. I'm naturally more submissive, emotional, and indecisive, and I speak softer and have some more typically "feminine" qualities (it's also no secret to the people I'm close to that I like to crossdress, so that might be a big part of it too). I'm wondering if any other males who consider themselves to be INFP have encountered this, if it could be a result of typical INFP qualities manifesting themselves in ways that aren't as "masculine" as some people expect?

My girlfriend wants to start watching anime with me. She's only seen a few Ghibli films but she likes them. She's heard about Full Metal Alchemist and Death Note, and she thinks they sound cool, and I agree that those are two good shows to start with. What are some other anime that you think someone new to the infinite hells of anime would like, without turning them off? Because like if she finds out I enjoy something like Oreimo, I might be a goner.