threeinthebed

I wanted to bring this topic over here because I wonder if there might not be a higher percentage of nude sleepers in this bunch than generally (which, apparently, is about one-third of the population), but I was surprised by the sprinklings in the thread of people who are generally uncomfortable with nude sleeping on quasi-moral grounds because their child/pet/burglar might try to jump into bed with them.

This may be ever-so-slightly off-topic, but you are my target audience for a reason. Please opine on what you sleep in and why you choose clothes/no clothes/etc.

So while I was out at lunch today, I ran across a woman who, at a weekday lunch, was wearing these super-high, buckle-top, patent leather heels with a short dress.

Made me curious if any of you really sex up your public persona from time to time, with intent (either for yourself or your SO). I admit to having public-naughty fantasies, so this may rev me up a little more than some people, and the implied fetish fashion with the buckles honestly didn't hurt.

[ETA: Would it be wrong of me to suggest that this could be a Gone Mild Monday theme?!?!]

I saw a post from about a month ago about vacation spots in a beach environment, and I wonder if anyone knows of any adults-only spots that might be nude-friendly or outdoor-sex friendly, swinger or not, that are not in tropical locations. Sadly, having spent most of my life in warmer climates, island getaways do not quite have the draw that they might for some.

I am curious more toward the resort end and less toward the nudist camp in the woods end.

[Edited to Add: Worldwide scope. Have passport, will travel.]

I am sure this will come out sounding rather basic, primarily because we all know the basics.... full belly + alcohol often equals mental desire without good physical ability.

I'm curious about posing this question to the larger hive mind, even though I have a preconception about the answers, but has anyone come up with a way to make lovemaking more enjoyable on those nights of excellent mental state where one might have overindulged (think: upcoming holiday parties)?

I get serious tequila sleepies if that's the beverage of choice (and not the world's greatest erections), and my wife pretty well dries up at the sight of a glass of wine, so it's a lose-lose on an otherwise fun night out.

C

So, I'm going to grant you all at the outset that I am new here, and no, my relationship is not in a good place, but stick with me. If you are curious or interested as to the details of the relationship itself, ask, or PM.

I've realized that in addition to the fade that sometimes comes with challenge (and/or children and/or challenging children) in a relationship, the "rules" of our sex life have changed. More specifically, in addition to almost being in a DB, when it does happen, many of the acts of intimacy that used to occur on a regular basis (I'll call them "the things I like") no longer happen, even when requested.

I talked to my wife about this recently (and did it outside the bedr

We've never really done this before, but we want to have some fun with an unattached woman (only) as our first exploration into more-than-just-us. She is interested in being with a woman for the first time, and we both really like watching the other enjoy fun times in the bedroom.

We would love to hear from you if you are a sophisticated woman over 25, NS&DDF, professional, body art okay, and willing to play with both of us with equal enthusiasm. Bonus points if you like to watch, too.

Please, no couples, no men, no jealousy at all.

We look forward to hearing from you.