r/FreeUseLifestyle

4.7K archived posts · Dec 2019 – Sep 2026

Free Use Lifestyle - real world experiences

r/FreeUseLifestyle

A subreddit for discussion and sharing about experiences of sexual free use, when somebody isn't allowed to turn down a request for sex.

Created Dec 2, 2019 · NSFW

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4.7KArchived posts

The essence of free use is surrendering your right to refuse sex, or acknowledging that right has been taken from you, and acceptance of the sexual spontaneity that comes with that, sometimes even including while you are asleep. It doesn't necessarily mean no limits or no safewords, nor is it generally the same as r/TotalPowerExchange slavery with that emphasis on continuous control, abuse, and/or humiliation. Free use can be done with or without elements of r/BDSM, and is otherwise as vanilla or as kinky as you make it. You might be willing and eager to be used, indifferent to it, or in some cases resentful of the situation. Given their nature, situations like r/Gloryholes and r/ReverseGloryHole count as well.

Whether your free use experiences involve one partner or multiple; a consistent partner(s) or a series of strangers; whether for an evening, a weekend, or a long term 24/7 arrangement; whether currently ongoing, recent, or years ago; whether you wanted it because you're a slut, just wanted to keep your partner satisfied, agreed to it in exchange for something else, or were forced into it via coercion or blackmail; even if you were the user rather than the used, or just hope to be in a free use relationship someday; this is the subreddit to talk about it.

About our icon, the Free Use symbol
Types and Styles of Free Use

FreeUseLifestyle Rules

1. Stories must exemplify the subreddit topic

Free use will not be assumed in stories that seem focused on other kinks or fetishes. Such posts may be removed at a moderator's discretion.

2. No [non-OC] photos, captioned photos, videos, or fictional erotica stories.

Any photo/video must be of you having sex with your free use partner, or publicly displaying an invitation to be free used. Material sourced from porn and generic solo self-pictures will be removed.

3. No r4r posts/comments looking for partners, hookups, or roleplays.

This includes doing so by implication such as asking about someone's location or mentioning yours. Go to r/freeuseme, r/freeuseclub, or the likes of r/dirtyr4r instead. Use r/dirtypenpals or similar to find people for online roleplay.

4. No harassment

No, you are not entitled to see photos or videos of anyone, even if a story revolves around them. Also, you are not entitled to private messages with anybody.

5. No kink shaming, concern trolling, etc.

6. No calling stories fake.

7. No content describing underage (18) participants.

More About the Rules

This subreddit is not for professional porn photos or videos overlaid with an alleged free use theme, free use fiction (that being said, the veracity of personal stories also shall not be questioned), or for partner-seeking r4r posts. No kink shaming or concern trolling. No underage anything, or stories that are primarily bestiality. Stories that seem like they are being dumped here focusing on some other fetish, without including any free use element, may be removed (those other things, incest, cucking, cheating, etc., have their own subreddits).

Be adults and behave.

Valuable posts

Some tips and advice from a free use veteran
The appeal of free use to the used woman

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