r/AskGayMen

69K archived posts · Jul 2013 – Sep 2026

Ask Gay Men

r/AskGayMen

A subreddit to ask questions for men who have sex with men

Created Mar 12, 2013 · NSFW

133KMembers (last snapshot)

69KArchived posts

If you have a question for gay men or men who have sex with men, ask away.

MOD NOTE: We do not allow studies or surveys in this little sub. Sorry :c

If we did, surveys would likely outweigh actual posts.

Rules (more like guidelines...)

No douchebaggery. No hate. No judgement. All curiosity.
Try not to be overly graphic with your questions. Questions about sex are welcome, but this isn't a sub for gushingly detailed erotica.
Try the search bar just in case your question has already been answered!
Gay men answering questions: Be nice. A bit of sass is fine now and then, but don't be a dick. See also: Rule 1.
Bi / Trans Men are welcome here.

We rely on the report tool, so if there's an issue with a post or a comment flag it for us so someone sees it and can address it. We may not remove or ban someone over a report, but we do review them all.

Our Friends:

r/GayMen for discussion of issues and experiences
r/AskMen for more general male questions
r/ainbow for a taste of the whole spectrum
r/gaymers for community lovin'
r/gay because duh
r/BisexualMen for the Bi Guys out there
r/QueerTransmen for our Queer Transmen

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