(19f) Any tips for masturbation?

So, I've never...touched myself down there because I've always wanted to save it for my future partner, but since I've only met really bad men I don't think that will happen. I'd really like to...explore that side because I'm always made fun of by guys when I tell them I've never masturbated before. I've only orgasmed once in the shower a while ago but it was involuntary. I've never watched porn either and I'm kind of scared to do it.

Posted Mar 31, 2023, 9:26 PM UTC

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Exact-Mountain2595•

This seems like a question for r/masturbation though honestly a quick search will give you a rough idea.

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Ok-Antelope9334•

They are larping, probably a dude getting off to comments and private DM roleplay from my convo

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plutodarling•

Sexplanations on youtube (which I think is a pretty good generally sex information channel) or there’s a phone app called emjoy (they have guided audio lessons, and so far it’s been one of the most successful ways I’ve learned from just the free trial)

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Elegant-Ad9113•

Oh my goodness, I love sexplanations. I'm so glad she started uploading again. Her videos helped me feel secure in my sexuality and my kinks. I felt so weird until I started following her channel.

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Holiday_Walk_6756•

Learning more about your clitoris can help you orgasm more easily during masturbation.

Concentrate on this area when you first start figuring out how to orgasm, while also paying some attention to the labia. When you are stimulating your clit, you’ll find that you can get most pleasure by rubbing it from the ‘1 o’clock position’ if you imagined it to be a clock. The ‘one o’clock’ position is the upper left area of your clitoris, so it’s easiest to stimulate with your left hand. Experiment with applying different amounts of pressure to it to see what you enjoy the most.

Then it’s just a case of continuously stimulating your clit while focusing solely on the types of rubbing, pressing and caressing that are most enjoyable.

You’ll need to do a lot of experimentation to see what feels best for you, which is always fun. Thankfully, you’ll find an encyclopedia of techniques you can use throughout this guide

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knowing your body yourself would be a benefit before meeting your future partner

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but since I've only met really bad men

Aka ugly men

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