I’m sad

Been seeing this band since 2019 and Ben was always my second favorite member after Rick. I have faith but man this sucks

Posted Dec 24, 2023, 2:47 AM UTC

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Lightyearspast29•

You have a right to feel that way.

You’ll be able to watch Ben play, you’ll be able to watch Goose play.

Good music is coming, no one is harmed. No need to be sad. Enjoy the holidays.

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TownUniqueOP•

Yeah you’re right. That’s all true. Sometimes you just need to be sad

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twangman88•

Obviously we don’t know the full story but it definitely seems like SOMEONE was harmed in all this. At least one someone.

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Bau5_Sau5•

Cheers to that brother

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GratefulPhish555•

Wasn’t Ben harmed if Pete fucked his girl?

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ThatDoodch•

Listen to the Butter Rum from Goosemas 2022. It might make it worse. But remember the good times friend, and have faith they’ll continue on.

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TownUniqueOP•

Sometimes it’s gotta get worse before it gets better

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lucidaesthetic•

You gotta go down if you wanna get up.

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Los_Feliz_Ghost•

You've gotta go down if you want to get up 🎶😥

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FarMobile4219•

Damn that was my first Goose show. I went in blind with very low expectations and I distinctly remember how into that song the entire crowd was. I went home and played it for my wife and 6 month old baby. It became a staple in our house for months. It’s amazing how times in your life can be totally associated with a song. I’ll always appreciate Ben for that

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GameOfScones•

If the music we loved, especially the last few months was coming from a band that was out of sync or individuals in strife, then I can’t wait for both parties to move forward and make the music they connect with 100%. 10 years of playing music with a group of people, even when that group changes a few times, is a long time.

Think about yourself 10 years ago and how different you are now? How many jobs have you held working with the a small group of people for 10 years? Change is bound to happen. The best we can hope for is that this change lets the band members and Ben grow musically and fulfill more of their potential.

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Los_Feliz_Ghost•

Love this take. Some of my favorite Goose has come from the last six months. So I'm like, damn, well now I want to hear how they sound when there isn't a stormcloud over their collective heads. (Or maybe there wasn't a stormcloud at all and the band was simply at peace with an everyone-knows-it's-coming split on the horizon.) At the same time, some of my favorite music has come from bands during times of internal conflict (Abbey Road, The Wall, Radio City Ghost 5/22/00, etc.).

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Why was Ben kicked out of the band?

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70x70•

There was a lot of talk during the Asheville Umphrey’s McGee sit-ins between Ben and Kris from UM about the direction Goose was going. As a founding member of Goose, Ben was not entirely happy with Peter’s influence over the band. After getting off the plane from the European tour, Ben commented to a couple fans in the airport bar, “I hope you can see now how exposed Peter’s lack of keyboard skills are. And they make fun of me for backing vocals on Butter Rum. Peter perpetually sounds like a teenager going through their voice change.”

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Los_Feliz_Ghost•

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sluwecki•

Peter was sleeping with Ben's fiance was the beginning of the end

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PromontoryRider95•

A lot of people are saying his girl cheated on him with a certain band member which, in Hampton, led to a physical altercation with said band member. Pretty lame that Ben got the shaft since it was his girl who took the shaft 🤷‍♂️

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SinCitySaint•

I see you come from the Trump school of citing sources.

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PromontoryRider95•

Good grief, hardly, say what you will. The truth hurts. Pair that with recent covers of Timberlake, Nickelback, and Post Malone and there seems to be plenty of reasons for those two to duke it out, and for one to leave..

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ninthandpine•

Everyone knows that How You Remind Me fucked GTFO

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PhanaticMom33•
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PromontoryRider95•

This only adds a whole lot of fuel to the fire..wow. I'm sure she'd come out and say "yup I cheated," right..? Pair that statement with the pictures with Peter, and it really smells foul.

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ontoanew•

Stop spreading this fake rumor. It’s 100% false. You’re an adult. It’s weird and cringey.

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poppaswamp•

Fwiw one of my buddies lost his fiance to one of the band members too 😭

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70x70•

She didn’t cheat on him as her post states. But she started boning Jeff and it came to fist-to-cuffs backstage after N2 at Hampton. Ben jammed a low tom over Jeff’s head and then grabbed a bowl of hummus and couscous and smeared it all over his face. He then stormed out of the green room shouting, “That whole Gong Gang BS is fucking stupid. There’s no ‘gang’ and you’re just a dumbass.”

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GoosetheBand-ModTeamMOD•

Your message is being removed for failure of following rule #2 -No Irrelevant Content

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Barchie_is_endgame•

Wait this is crazy! I thought Peter has a girl and I swear I saw her at goosemas!! Maybe they’re open? or this was like a double cheating situation

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the only "cheating rumors" are spread by neckbeards on reddit. zero substance.

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TheFuzzyMachine•

The Handini doing some work on a new octave I see

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I think when there's smoke there's fire on this one, especially since there's pictures of Peter with Ben's fiancé.

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PromontoryRider95•

Several, in fact. And the fight between the two is not speculation by any means. I know Ben is the only one who "left," but it'll be interesting to see how this shakes out between the greater group considering how unjust this scenario played out for Ben.

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BossTus•

There is no way that Peter slept with Ben’s ex-fiancée. Peter has a girlfriend that goes to tons of shows, including Hampton.

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I know for one that they won't get another dollar from me!

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DhammaKharma•

Goose has distinguished themselves as not your typical jam band. Not a good look at all. Ben comes out of this looking good...the boys have sum 'splainin' to do

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PhanaticMom33•

Yep. Everyone keeps saying “well the Dead had lots of lineup changes!” Umm yeah, when someone died or was a major junkie. Not just because the guitar player has a huge ego.

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DhammaKharma•

So true....

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fallinginfoam•

He was my favorite member by miles. This one stings.

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He got fired. Goose arent nice hippies.

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TownUniqueOP•

Maybe you’re right, maybe you’re wrong. I’m sad

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saltmarsh63•

Stay positive. This is a long term win for both Ben and Goose. Band dynamics are complicated, and it seems this change was needed. So the change was made.

Now let’s let it go, and look forward to see what both Ben and Goose do. Both deserve our support, not all this hate and drama.

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GR000000000M3R•

Getting kicked out of the band you founded just when its finally making big money is a good thing in what universe?

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goth_angel14•

Sm hate in this comment section :/

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TheSheikYerbouti•

This fanbase has issues

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growlerpower•

I’m essentially an outsider to this community. Goose cool and all, but my god, the negativity in this sub the last couple days is beyond. Might as well be r/politics.

It’s Christmas. Go enjoy the real world.

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Mobile-Animal-649•

You go way back with the band eh? lol

Good lord

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I got a chuckle at this lol

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Mobile-Animal-649•

Not sure why I get downvoted. Folks need to learn what a joke is. lol

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wait for them to come out of mourning and try again

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the_wave5•

A lot of us are! But we need to accept it and move forward.

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CharacterLive5447•

OP you’re softer than a woke marshmallow jesus christmas

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EmperorOfOregano•

Jeb is poly and was hittin that shit. Ben was just being a potato.

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jerry450•

Sad times indeed. I am surprised that they can keep playing under the Goose name. Usually when a founding member leaves, they have to play under a different name or make a huge payout to the departing member. Glad i saw them when they were a 3 piece and a 4 piece. I thought Ben would be there forever, i mean he looks like a young Jon Fishmen even. I thought the Goose statement was very corporate, not even close from the heart. Will be an interesting Summer 2024 tour, i think they need to rest for a bit but that wont happen. Take care peeps.

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halfstep1•

Lol

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PhanaticMom33•

Huge payout coming for sure.

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70x70•

It’s funny you should say that. There’s been a lot of talk about rebranding under the name Douche. That way it won’t sound too different when the band comes onstage to play and everyone yells, “Douche!”

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GR000000000M3R•

Goose is a corporate entity with no soul whatsoever.

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I have zero faith, I also started seeing them in 2019 and starting about a year and a half ago, I only see them live because their jams seem too similar to me to listen to them any other times.

Now though I have zero desire to see them live again, maybe after a decently long hiatus I'll check back in and see if they diversified their jams at all.

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Dangerous_Map_6772•

You’ve posted this on almost every thread in the last 2 days.

If you don’t dig what they’re doing, don’t go to shows. Otherwise kindly STFU.

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If you don’t dig what they’re doing, don’t go to shows. Otherwise kindly STFU.

So what you're saying is if I don't go to shows, I can continue talking like this, it's a deal because I have zero desire to see them anytime soon so I'll continue with my rants, thank you!

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qvcspree•

You didn't read what he said, he said kindly STFU.

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Then don't go.

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