magic_is_mightUnverified Fattie•

Can that shitty sub just implode and die already?

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rosechiffonYUNG SNUGGIE HYPE SQUAD•

they can just go to vasco, or vore, or whatever that site was that people kept trying to promote

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observer_december•

vore

...yep. Vore. That's the hip new thing everyone's talking about, which you should totally google.

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rosechiffonYUNG SNUGGIE HYPE SQUAD•

i was joking :( i know what vore is (unfortunately). i think the site is voat or something actually.

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observer_december•

Well because I feel like a chatty asshole, I must now inform you that anal vore is also a thing.

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CrazyCatLady108-insert witty flair here-•

attack on titan! yeah!

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Ivan_the_Tolerable•

You instantly lose weight. What's for FPH not to love?

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dumnezero🌿 vegan skeleton 💀•

( r/vore )

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______________pewpewRedpillian SJW Shill•

Voat.co

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aceavengers/r/voatdrama shill•

Shamelessly plugs my subreddit

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cuddles_the_destroyeAll hail the oberführerin!•

you mean hubski?

1
OkToBeTakei•

Planetfitness.com

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theshinepolicy•

Hey glad you're here. Quick question. In your pathetic explanation of yourself you claim to be a well paid New Yorker. But a quick look at your submissions has you asking r/Brooklyn where a super cheap place to get your cat neutered is because money is tight. So I guess my question is, what kind of shitty app did you develop?

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OkToBeTakei•

You do realize that it's possible for a person to get a job in the time between then and now. Money was tight because I was still in school. I've since graduated and gotten a job working for a dev studio. I don't work on any one app, I work on a few different apps.

Heh. Shows what you know, smartass.

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Beneneb•

What I always wondered about you people, is if you care so deeply about promoting this great cause of yours, why do you stick to the Internet? Why not try to get all your great friends irl in on the action? Because you totally aren't doing this as an excuse to bully people and feel better about your own shit life, it's totally all about making the world a better place. I'm sure all your friends would totally understand and take up the cause with you.

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ieatdinosaurs•

You're a shitty person.

Eagerly awaiting your 4000-word rebuttal steeped in insecurity.

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DocileBanalBovinePop POP•
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Thai_HammerGender Wars? More Like Bender Tours!•

Has there ever been a sub implosion that has truly gotten ride of the awful userbase? Like all the infighting will probably lead to new and worse subs. r/Niggers (and there is a disturbing number of subs that starts with that word, thanks RES) transformed into even more subs.

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motherflutter•

I had to check. You weren't kidding. RES is fucking racist.

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neerk•

I think they mostly all moved to (not even gonna link it) great apes?

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uazaa•

It's an excellent source of punchable faces when they post photos of themselves. Like this douchebag king

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Shady_IntentButter Beast•

Ugh. His attractive outside conceals the ugly inside. I hate that.

I wish we had some sort of sign to avoid people that were really despicable humans. Like neon-lights that read "FPH" or "TRP" above their heads so we'd know off the hop what kind of people they really were and could avoid accordingly.

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ucstruct•

It would be funny if they did a faces of fatpeoplehate.୹They would all turn on each other in an instant because of they're varying standards.

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SarcasticOptimist•

Or at least go through the speech equivalent of a bypass?

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sameth1•

No. The drama is too good.

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freet0au contrail•

this sub is about the drama

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CollumMcJingleballsShillery Clinton 2016•

It's getting there.

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OkToBeTakei•

Found the fatty

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observer_december•

At first I upvoted you because I thought you were being sarcastic, and were satirizing FPH users. Then I went through your history and realized that you were being earnest.

You're literally a caricature, dude.

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magic_is_mightUnverified Fattie•

Pretty sad when it's hard to discern parody/satire and them being completely serious.

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observer_december•

My internal Poe's Law barometer was broken long ago. Virtually all hate, bigot, and conspiracy posts look like parody to me now.

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Spawnzer•

Such a good name wasted on a shitty troll

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IronTitsMcGuintyGiving job security to MetaRedditOncologists•

That's exactly what I thought when I saw it.

So ya use Takei's message of accepting others and loving who you want to love, and use it to preach hate. Congrats, you're a terrible person.

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I_HEART_GOPHER_ANUS•

I was gonna tell you to use an /s because people from FPH really are that purely unoriginal and absurdly low-brow that they literally can't think of anything better to say, but oh look at where you've been posting!

Thank you, for helping to consistently prove how absurdly pathetic and hilariously simple-minded the fine denizens of r/fatpeoplehate really are when it comes to having to think of some kind of verbal retaliation that the first challenger in a contest of insults from a rivalling middle school would be able to top in seconds. Again, thank you. You must be very proud of your ability to repeat things you've read over internet forums that even a 4th grader would be able to shit on relentlessly with virtually no effort required.

I also love that you deleted your other comment trying to taunt this sub because you were being downvoted, shows how much you guys actually care about your pseudo life spent insulting creepshots on a forum made literally just for people like you.

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xvXnightmaresXvx•

All you dumbasses ate enough bait to feed fucking japan, and we all know how much fish those motherfuckers eat

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PissingBearsbitcoin gambling apocalypse kaiji•

they say it to rile people up, it's still stupid

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CountofAccount•
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OkToBeTakei•

Why would you expect anything so convoluted? Fat people are disgusting, and they're fat because of their poor decisions and lack of self-control. They are systemic and constant drains on society due to their heightened medical needs which they often need Medicare and Medicaid (our tax dollars) to pay for. That effects me, and it pisses me off. It's as simple as that. No imagination is required nor any particular creative eloquence. So if there's any fault here it lies purely with you and your unrealistic expectations of unnecessary grandeur, you ridiculous buffoon.

There. Was that florid enough for you?

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magic_is_mightUnverified Fattie•

Found the fatty.

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OIP•

nice r/iamverysmart post to try and justify idiotic bullying.

try being less insecure, it's ok, everyone has problems.

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I_HEART_GOPHER_ANUS•

So you've taken to repeating other things you've read multiple other people have write countless times before? Nah, that's the same thing as saying "found the fatty" but you think because you used multi-syllabic words that it suddenly sounds smart. But I guess independent thought and opinions are for FATTIES amirite?

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winterdplease no copyrino my flairatola•

Dude, self-loathing is never the answer.

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CinderSkye•

Hi.

I'm fat. I've resisted commenting to any serious degree on this FPH thing. Heck, I've resisted voting on it. Let's have a dialogue. You're probably sleeping right now, so I'll wait. I'm not going to yell, I'm not going to insult, I'm not going to make guesses on your psychology. Feel free to say anything that you want to me. Feel free to link FPH or FatLogic or ... whatever to me.

I would like to know how you can singularly define one person's contributions to society on their obesity. You may have answered that already elsewhere and I missed it, so feel free to copy and paste a response.

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noconversehave account, will shill•

Okay, I get it, the obesity problem in America is one that's near and dear to your heart because you feel it's a significant drain on public resources. So then why take the full on fat-shaming approach when its been shown time and again that this usually just makes the problem worse rather than better?

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[deleted]•

Takei's husband is a bit roundish himself. Where is your god now?

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magic_is_mightUnverified Fattie•

It's true. See my flair. Way ahead of you, buddy.

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______________pewpewRedpillian SJW Shill•

Found the chubby chaser.

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Knappsterbottrying to seduce ttumblrbots•

WHOA did you come up with that? I can't stop laughing, I've never heard anything so goddamn funny and totally original in my life. Bravo slimebag, bravo.

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Chester_Allman•

Found the 12 year old.

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DeathToPenniesFatty Lover•

I'm sorry the other kids make fun of you.

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SomeOldGoat•

Quit using George Takei's name for evil!

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xvXnightmaresXvx•

Great bait dude, you succeeded with the jimmy rustling

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DarkSkyKnightayyy•

FPH users are like:

Not at all, fatty. I'm young, thin, I have a cool, well-paying job in iOS app development, an awesome apartment in a cool neighborhood in Brooklyn, I'm good-looking, I have lots of fiends and an active social life, a neat cat. Great relationships with my parents. What more could I want?

Edit: Heath insurance, a 401k, stock options, I'm going on vacation in Europe this summer (Spain?)... Shall I go on?

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Ebu-GogoWhan that drama with his popcorn soote•

People who like to list the ways in how 'awesome' their lives are, I've found are generally really unhappy with it for some reason.

Not saying that's true 100% of the time, but it's something I've been noticing. Like they're mostly just trying to convince themselves.

To me it comes across as a waste of good life.

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FateofNornsliberal but not THAT liberal•

Having a great life is like having a big dick: if it's actually true, you don't need to mention it to other people.

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sasnfbi1234•

ya that's why I never tell anyone about how huge my dong is. like the fact that big dick problems exists is silly to me

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tightdickplayer•

also they're probably making it up. people with sweet lives don't tend to post thirty threads a month about how much they hate fat peope

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DrLisaCuddy-House•

A couple of years ago I would have fit right in at FPH. If the general user of that sub is anything like me, then you can be assured that they hate themselves 10x more than they claim to hate fat people.

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jawk3d•

and being fat comes across as a life well spent?

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DiddyKing•

If you're happy, then sure, why not?

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lask001shitlord•

I like to post in FPH, but I actually agree with you on this. It doesn't even matter if you are happy - it's your life, do what you want with it.

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Ebu-GogoWhan that drama with his popcorn soote•

Just being fat doesn't say everything about how one lives their life.

It can be wasteful, but that doesn't mean it's deserving of hate.

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chickenburgerr•

Most people's lives aren't well spent

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PissingBearsbitcoin gambling apocalypse kaiji•

Who decides if it's well spent or not? You?

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jawk3d•

ding. ding. ding.

So why are people passive-aggressively bringing up how lives should be spent? Might as well just be offensive, people that aren't fucktards can see through your shenanigans.

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Zenith_and_Quasar•

It worked for Benjamin Franklin.

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Reachforthesky2012•

I'm sure the likes of George R.R. Martin and John Goodman are sobbing while looking back on their wasted life. They probably look at people who spend inordinate amounts of time posting hatred on the internet with envy.

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tightdickplayer•

moreso than people spending the entire time weeping about how fat people exist, yes! you're much worse than the thing you hate!

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vagtasticvoiagecome along and ride on the•

Another copy paste to add to the list? It's almost too obvious of a joke.

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juice585•

But he's got lots of fiends. And a neat cat.

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randomsnarkjet fuel can't melts grilled cheese•

That's the part that breaks my suspension of disbelief. I have two cats and they are so untidy.

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geargirl•

I thought so too at first, but it doesn't feel long enough. It's also more akin to regular fph rationalization than the flailing one-offs that cook the best copypasta.

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Razziputin•

Just missing the "girlfriend who works as a model" part.

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Moritanienjoys a well done steak•

I like that he has all that, but no SO. No one loves a bitter ass. Makes me smile.

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theshinepolicy•

Also he posted on a nyc sub looking for cheap vets cause "money was tight" so I imagine his app probably sucks balls

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Not_So_Bad_AndyWill shill for popcorn•

See, that's where TRPers at least tend to be smarter than FPHers. At least many TRPers know to have alts/throwaways for TRP and the other PUA subs. The FPH people don't, and they leave such easily traceable trails to their idiocy.

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DeepStuffRickyIlsaSheWolfoftheGrammarSS•

That wouldn't happen to them if a. verifying that they're not fat IRL and b. proving to the rest of reddit that they're out and proud about their particular brand of trolling didn't mean so damn much to everyone on that subreddit. I mean, fuck, look at what we learned about leelem0n this week - her troll identity is not only the only one she has on reddit, it is easily linked back to ALL of her social media presence.

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Zorkamork•

Uh he has a cat, a cool job, and a european (MAYBE EVEN SPAIN?!) vacation, that's literally all you need (according to commercials)

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Pluppets•

And a fat person can have all that too. He is literally defining himself by the good things he (supposedly) owns and judging others by the (percieved) negative things they own. Grade A hypocrite there.

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SomeOldGoat•

Yeah, that's fucking weird to me. Literally none of the things this dude listed have anything to do with his weight except MAYBE being good-looking (depending on what you consider good-looking). I know multiple people with all that other shit PLUS a second cat. Do they have it better than him automatically now?

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buartha◕_◕•

I have lots of fiends

FPH users confirmed as Satan.

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EsotericKnowledgetrans-gingered•

Sooooo, a young, good-looking guy with a well-paying job in app development and a great apartment in a cool neighborhood, lots of friends and a social life, and a cat, and great parents, health insurance, 401k, stock options, and Euro vacations is a completely useless failure if he happens to be overweight?

Also:

I have lots of fiends

...fiends.

FIENDS. lololololol

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DAEH8FATPEOPLEYou're grosser than fat people, trust me. •

God these people are so sad. I almost feel sorry for them.

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DocileBanalBovinePop POP•

It's not like he's being racist. He's just calling people out on their terrible life decisions and impulse control

Hmm, assumptions based on superficial evidence and a desire to bully them?

Nope, not at all like a racist.

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idestroyeverythingThe jew you were warned about•

I don't really see them as particularly similar prejudices, but goddamn, the fact that anyone would find it even remotely defensible to bully and ridicule people for something they're struggling with is incomprehensible to me.

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DocileBanalBovinePop POP•

They're similar in that they're baseless prejudice clung to in a pathetic effort to feel better than another for a very very shallow reason.

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no_dice•

What's interesting is that he's presumably a gay male, he's probably been subject to a lot of hate himself.

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the-infinite-jesterChashillionaire•

actually that makes a lot of sense. he probably sees his struggle for self-acceptance as more valid because homosexuality is 100% out of our control while for many overweight people, changing their diet and exercise habits could potentially lessen the ostracizing they face.

I'm not trying to defend him at all here, I'm all for loving the skin you're in and being happy at any size, just trying to understand his rationale.

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no_dice•

I just find it weird that someone who has probably faced irrational hatred doesn't appear to have empathy for another group also facing a lot of hate. It's much like having such a large majority of black people opposing gay marriage. For example, black people voted 70% in favor of proposition 8, a full 17% higher than the next racial group.

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the-infinite-jesterChashillionaire•

yeah, I used to work out in Cali with a gay rights group and the black community was the hardest to talk with for sure. but it's a similar view towards gay people that this dude has towards fat people- a lot of the homophobia in urban black communities comes from deep roots in Christianity, and it's preached a lot that being gay is a choice. I heard a lot that people don't understand why they would choose to be gay and put themselves through the discrimination, but they justify being discriminatory because their race isn't a choice.

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freet0au contrail•

I don't think its really fair to compare the two.

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DocileBanalBovinePop POP•

It's an attempt to minimize the shittiness by saying he's choosing a different stupid physical characteristic to base his bullying on. It's completely fair to compare the two

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77jamjam•

How the fuck can you compare racism to saying being fat is bad??? Fat people can easily change their shitty appearance by getting off their lazy asses and them being fat has a negative effect on everyone else, yet being a different race doesn't hurt anyone and can't be changed, you are seriously stupid.

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magic_is_mightUnverified Fattie•

Why are you so angry? Did a fat person mentally and physically scar you for life? :( where is all this deep seated hatred and self loathing coming from?

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77jamjam•

Fat people are lazy and ignorant and they obviously don't respect themselves, so why should I respect them?

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sasnfbi1234•

ignorant and they obviously don't respect themselves

funny, kinda describes you.

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DeathToPenniesFatty Lover•

Watch this:

Being fat is bad. It's unhealthy, unattractive, and generally leads to a lower quality of life.

I said that. Just now. Being fat is bad. Now watch this.

I like how the fat man dies.

Fatties are totally delusional, and referring to reality always insults them.

I fucking hate fat people.

Pig got roasted!

Fat fucks really are the living dead.

Now I want you to really try and push the gears in your head to their maximum work load. Really give my question a lot of thought.

Can you see the difference between what I said, and what r/fatpeoplehate is saying?

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DocileBanalBovinePop POP•

How the fuck can you compare racism to saying being fat is bad???

If it's not too hard for you, you can read exactly how I did in the post you just responded to.

Fat people can easily change their shitty appearance by getting off their lazy asses and them being fat has a negative effect on everyone else, yet being a different race doesn't hurt anyone and can't be changed, you are seriously stupid.

I'm not the one who thinks it's easy to stop being fat. That's a seriously stupid statement. I'm just someone who notices that both chucklefucks like you and racists chose to hate and bully a group for shallow and pathetic reasons

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no_dice•

How the fuck can you compare racism to saying being fat is bad?

Except you're not saying being fat is bad, you're going well beyond that. I think being overweight is bad for people, but for some reason I'm able to go about my life without joining multiple communities dedicated to mocking/shaming overweight people anonymously.

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77jamjam•

Being fat is bad for them and everyone else, therefore I hate them.

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no_dice•

That's rather apparent. What's also apparent is you didn't really get the point of my post. You'd be hard pressed to find too many people who wouldn't agree with you if you said "being obese is unhealthy". That being said, you'd also probably have a hard time finding very many people who would say "being obese is unhealthy and therefore we should all spend part of our days actively hating their existence."

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OkToBeTakei•

People who willfully choose to destroy their bodies and become drains on society through massive medical costs deserve to be shamed. Racism is based on something that is not a choice but on a way someone was born. How can you not differentiate between the two?

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SDSSJ102915172927•

Hey so I'm really skinny and dislike being skinny and tried to gain weight but failed and a few months back I saw this great BBC documentary called Why Are Thin People Not Fat? and what's interesting about this is not only did it inform me why I struggle to gain weight but by proxy it also informs me you and yer buddies are full of shit

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mizmooseHated At Every Size•

A published paper about the original Vermont Overfeeding Study.

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mizmooseHated At Every Size•

From the video, "The biology of the regulation of body weight is such that an otherwise successfully weight-reduced, obese individual is going to have to live with [the] constant sensation of hunger IF they intend to be able to maintain that reduced body weight indefinitely."

And suddenly, FPH makes sense. These people are constantly hungry and grumpy, and are lashing out their frustrations on those who aren't the same way.

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lask001shitlord•

Have you considered counting calories. It works wonders.

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OkToBeTakei•

Uh, since you didn't make any actual assertions other than "I watched something on tv, so you're full of shit," I'll treat you like the 5-year-old you sound like and not respond further.

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SDSSJ102915172927•

Like I was going to waste my time typing out a long argument you would never have listened to. And that BBC documentary is still better than your baseless assertions rooted in nothing but your backside. Saying "it's a fact" over and over again doesn't make it so.

Also the kid who non-ironically says "found the fatty" says I sound like a 5 year old mfw

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youre_being_creepy•

Lol Bro do you jack off to the thought of yourself

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OkToBeTakei•

no, my boyfriend jacks me off to thoughts of me ;)

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magic_is_mightUnverified Fattie•

Poor guy.

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Foridin•

Wow, I hope he knows that if he ever gains weight, you're going to start seeing him as subhuman and referring to him as "this."

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sasnfbi1234•

"I am attractive I swear Guyzzzz!?!?!"

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IrisGoddamnIllychbrony expert, /u/glitchesarecool harasser•

no-one, except for maybe rapists and those on-par with them, deserves to be shamed

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[deleted]•

I wouldn't wish FPH even on rapists.

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DarkSkyKnightayyy•

For fuck's sake, it's late in Manhattan right now. Go to bed and call it a day (night). Your body needs you to maintain a good sleep cycle. No amount of fun is worth skipping sleep.

You do realize that sleeping improperly leads to obesity.

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You do realize that sleeping improperly leads to obesity.

i get the joke, but a lot of FPH people have eating disorders, and as such saying this is a bit sad

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MRB2012•

People who willfully choose to destroy their bodies and become drains on society through massive medical costs deserve to be shamed

May as well go after alcoholics or smokers.

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Joseph011296Just here to Shill for my Twitch Stream•

I think the FPH users had a schism when a Smoker Hate subreddit popped up.

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that__one__guySHADOW CABAL!•

I love the whole "you can't change race!" argument you people parrot all the time, like you've never seen Michael Jackson before.

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heatseekingwhale(◕‿◕✿)•

ಠ_ಠ

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that__one__guySHADOW CABAL!•

A better example would be the author of "Black Like Me". He had surgery to make himself look black.

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chickenburgerr•

If that's the logic by which your going then most people deserve to be shamed. We're all consuming far too many resources, let alone medical costs. People who lead unhealthy lives at least have the common decency to die early instead of selfishly clinging to life using more resources and even greater medical expenses when they reach old age.

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takaci•

http://www.mettainstitute.org/mettameditation.html

Try this on a fat person you dislike

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smell_my_thoughts•

Yeah, it's kind of how like you weren't born a piece of shit, but you have chosen to be a negative, horrible, disgusting emotional drain on society.

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safarispiff•

Holy crap, that FPHer is literally a caricature of fatpeoplehate.

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Most FPHers are. I think it set the record for quickest descent into self parody.

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safarispiff•

Really, I feel this must be the converse of the PCMasterRace principle-any subreddit dedicated to a ridiculous premise eventually surpasses their detractor's mockery.

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halfar•

Guys.

I don't think r/FatPeopleHate users hate fat people.

I think they hate each other!

^(and definitely themselves. just a huge ton of self-loathing, actually.)

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Spawnzer•

Now I wanna witness that meet up, drama irl everyone!

Inb4 >implying they leave their basement

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jawk3d•

Nah, we definitely hate fat people.

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halfar•

"we"? are you one of them? how do you justify being such an unbearable asshole? I don't understand... Me personally? I'd much rather hang out with a fat guy than a really mean person literally any day of the year.

I mean. bruh. I live in Hawaii. I know fat people. I've probably known more than you ever will already, so it's not a "oh, typical american doesn't hate and discriminate against gypsies because he's never even seen one" situation.

I guess i just don't get it.

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jawk3d•

Oh, Im only an unbearable asshole when there are fatties around me.

Im well liked by everyone else.

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halfar•

Buddy, if you're only a nice person when it's easy to be nice, you're not a nice person.

Though, seriously. What does the hate accomplish, for you or your victims?

I've known 10 guys that have lost over 100 pounds. You know what they all don't say? "Boy, I'm sure glad I had bullies to shame and humiliate me every step of the way. The people who were supportive and hoped for my best interests never were much help, though."

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DeepStuffRickyIlsaSheWolfoftheGrammarSS•

You guys are the biggest bunch of sad-sacks on here. There should actually be a subreddit where fat people can ridicule you guys. Unfortunately an inappropriate and pathetic level of emotional investment isn't as easy to capture in a picture as fat is.

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jawk3d•

Exactly. They are easy targets. It's why it's so easy and fun.

But go ahead, start a subreddit called r/shitlordhate or something, make yourself feel better about being fat.

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DeepStuffRickyIlsaSheWolfoftheGrammarSS•

Naw, I don't care about you guys that much. I actually think it's sad as fuck that this bullshit is having a real-time impact on the emotional well-being of your subreddit's moderator team. At least that's what I gather from the way they've been PMing people bullshit here left and right. You people are truly disturbed in the most depressing way.

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PissingBearsbitcoin gambling apocalypse kaiji•

wow, I think you might be too cool for this sub

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magic_is_mightUnverified Fattie•

Explains why he's posting here, huh

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CDToole•

You ever think of taking up a hobby? Like the piano, or archery?

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Extr22•

Why?

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karliekisbae•

You know the drama is juicy when the comment threads have more children than a day care center.

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That sub is making me consider leaving Reddit all together. I just can't support a website that allows those kind of hate subs. There's a fine line between allowing free speech and realizing that these sub reddits represent your company whether or not you are in charge of it.

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ARealProGenius•

Pretty good memes though

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No one is doubting the dankness of Reddit's memes.

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CthonicChar did nothing wrong. oldtypes gb2Earth•

That's what adblock is for!

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but where would you go

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Nowhere I guess. I seemed to live just fine without this. I have some faith that eventually some of these hate subs will get banned. Maybe I will wait it out.

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godofallcows•

If they allow an account server based list of blocked subreddits it would solve so much shit. They allow us to block users, why not subs.

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throwawayison•

When you insult someone, you do not help them find a new path, you often martyr them. If you can tactfully discuss with someone (meeting of the minds, not just you telling someone they should lose weight) how their choices are harming them, they may change.

And yet, studies found fat shaming actually results in people gaining weight rather than losing it.

Its like... if people gain weight because they're depressed or lonely or whatever have you.... making them feel worse isn't the answer?

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mizmooseHated At Every Size•

My problem with FPH imploding is this exact thing - FPH morons go to other subs and get their jollies there.

During the Big Undead Mod Drama, there were multiple reports of FPH posters trolling any sub that believes that fat people might actually be human beings. FPH posters are so obsessed with fat people that the idea that they might want to improve themselves is anathema and makes them froth at the mouth. And for some reason, FPH posters have waaaaay too much time on their hands.

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Shady_IntentButter Beast•

My hope for FPH is to grow up. They sound like mostly edgy teens parroting each other. This isn't meant to be a sly insult - like they actually sound like kids spouting off from other kids and the few adults who peaked in high school that might participate there.

I can't imagine actively embracing that level of contempt and hate for people - it seems so energy/time consuming. There are better things to focus that energy on.

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DAEH8FATPEOPLEYou're grosser than fat people, trust me. •

The overlap of FPH and /R/teenagers is vast and hilarious

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Shady_IntentButter Beast•

I'm actually sorta relieved to hear that. They're douchebags, but there's a chance they'll grow out of it. I went through a douchebag phase too - admittedly it wasn't this extreme but still.

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DAEH8FATPEOPLEYou're grosser than fat people, trust me. •

Sadly when there's that huge of an Echo chamber that'll only add fuel to their flames, don't think they'll do any growing in that sense.

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Shady_IntentButter Beast•

Yeah, that's true too. They're just getting their nasty opinions reaffirmed in there.

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bunnymeows•

As far as I can tell, the current status of the saga is that all the mods that left/were banned have returned, and very few users are still demanding retribution over the drama that started it all.

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snallygaster~$$~ young thug $hillionaire ~$$~•

Man, I hate it when people get unshadowbanned. Ruins all the fun.

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bunnymeows•

Did they get unshadowbanned? I thought they just were modded under a new account.

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PixyFreakingStixi am become drama, destroyer of kernels•

As r/FatPeopleHate implodes on itself,

Don't tease me like that, OP.

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arfyron•

If all these people care about is how other people being overweight effects the medical system shouldn't they all be out campaigning to ban smoking and be pulling for increased material regulations in household products? Of course they aren't which shoots a giant hole in their whole humanitarian jerk

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Bloch1920•

I have heard that it would actually be more costly on the medical system for people to be healthier because the extended life expectancy ends up costing the system more. It really doesn't affect them as much as they think it does.

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mizmooseHated At Every Size•

In the US, the CDC says that the main drain on the health care system is the elderly.

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RallyK•

Where's r/elderlypeoplehate ?

(Actually I do expect it exists)

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mizmooseHated At Every Size•

Hilariously, a number of them are smokers.

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lask001shitlord•

Admittedly, it's extremely hypocritical. Same with people who drink in excess. I would say most people I'm FPH couldn't make much of an argument for their position, or beyond that even really understand it.

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ttumblrbots•

SnapShots: 1, 2, 3 ^[?]

^^doooooogs ^^(tw: ^^so ^^many ^^colors)

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jaytrade21•

r/fatpeoplehate is the worst. I actually don't mind making fun of the HAES types as I feel they are the worst detriment to overweight people helping themselves, but I went on FPH to see what was going on and they were also making fun of fat people who were exercising and trying to lose weight. It is one of the shitholes of Reddit.

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catnik•

I think HAES started out as a really good idea - focusing on better nutrition, and pursuing a more active lifestyle/fitness, and not judging success by the scale. If the numbers are all that matter, going up one week becomes a huge deal. Instead of celebrating that, say, you made your best time on your run, or successfully cut out soda, or made it through your aerobics session and felt good instead of a wheezy, winded mess - if you didn't lose weight, none of that "matters" and that week is a "failure." Basic psychology - repeated failure leads to people giving up. Successes encourage people to keep going. There are a lot of bullshit diet techniques that will result in weight loss, but are unsustainable or even damaging. I think focusing on trying to be healthy first is a good thing.

Annnnd then you get the people who started complaining that HAES was "ableist" and "healthist" and that health could mean anything they wanted it to...

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mizmooseHated At Every Size•

Oh, yeah, HAES is the worst. There's nothing more horrible than telling fat people to eat healthier and to exercise more. I mean, they might actually get healthy if they do that. It's the WORST.

Life it's all-or-nothing. Health isn't a dichotomy of "either you are fat or you are thin." There are plenty of thin people who sit around on the couch eating junk food, but nobody gets all morally indignant over them, because, hey, they're thin.

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jaytrade21•

The HAES movement (at least from what I have seen) doesn't promote good eating at all. What I have seen online is just fat people who promote that they are fat and healthy and beautiful and don't need to change any of their bad habits; Then they make fun of thin people and say they are the unhealthy ones.

HAES might have started out like the way you are describing, but on places like Tumblr and other online places, it has morphed into "fat is beautiful and healthy and don't let anyone, even doctors, tell you differently".

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mizmooseHated At Every Size•

You do realize that there's a reason why Tumblr is called "Dumblr"?

In part, this is confusing HAES with the FAM (fat acceptance movement). There are people in FAM who insist that being fat is always healthy, and that's a crock of shit. It's just as much of a crock of shit that being thin is always healthy.

Real HAES says "Don't concentrate on weight loss," not "never lose weight." HAES says "You can be healthier no matter what you weigh," not "You are automatically a healthy person, period." HAES does say that you can be fat and beautiful, because people who like themselves are more likely to take better care of themselves. It tries to remove stigma and shame from being fat.

The most common strawman argument against HAES is that it automatically plasters a healthy label on everyone. That's untrue, and would defeat the point. The point of HAES is to encourage people to become more healthy. If you tell someone they're automatically healthy, what encouragement is that to get them to eat better and exercise more? The argument fails because it refuses to admit that HAES is about trying to live a healthier life.

HAES is about improving ones life. People who "hate" HAES do it because they believe that obesity is a moral failing of people who aren't constantly ashamed of themselves. It's a sad, sad statement on treating other people when shame and hate is consider the "right" thing to do.

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EsotericKnowledgetrans-gingered•

The most common strawman argument against HAES is that it automatically plasters a healthy label on everyone. That's untrue, and would defeat the point.

This. The point of HAES, at least at its inception, was that you don't have to go on refusing to live your life and loathing yourself just because of your weight. That you're more than the sum of your parts. That you are a complex human that's more than an imperfect body. That there is more to your life than obsessing over your size.

It doesn't mean you get a free pass to ignore your health, it just acknowledges that just because your human flaws are outrightly visible, you are no less deserving or worthy than others whose flaws aren't.

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jaytrade21•

Well, I can definitely get behind the real HAES movement, but they need to make sure the obese people who are not healthy stop hijacking it because seriously, this is the first I am hearing about what HAES is really about.

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lask001shitlord•

Wow, someone who gets it. I've also never understood the fascination haes has with "I'm in better shape than this person in shifty shape."

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anumatiEssJayDoubleJoo•

The denizens of that sub are behaving like unstable drama vortexes? I'm shocked, shocked I tell you.

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NyxBeanWon't somebody please think of the children!•

Plumber needed for toxic subreddit leaks.

...now I can't stop thinking about porn. God damn it, ruined an entire career through perving.

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EsotericKnowledgetrans-gingered•

but, but, I can't afford to have my water heater fixed! Do you take Ass-tercard?

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TheLadyEve•

Because fat people are a huge negative affect on society maybe?

I look forward to a time when the commenters from that sub learn to use affect and effect correctly. Seriously, this is an epidemic--and they are fully responsible for their grammar issues, and they are a burden on society because of their grammar! /s

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FixinThePlanet•

Why are they here please someone get rid of them

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gwstoss•

ITT: Intense projection

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