Traditional churches: less conservative than contemporary churches?
Before I begin, this is based mostly in personal experience, so I may be completely off-base here.
An odd trend I've noticed, at least in my area, is that modern "praise band" churches tend to be a lot more conservative than traditional "organ and hymns" churches. Weeks ago, my parents left their contemporary church because it was getting too much for their taste - it had just enacted a "gays can't be members, women can't be leaders" policy that caused a lot of people to leave. My parents ended up going to a traditional church we used to be members of years ago and had a conversation with the pastor, who has no problem with women leading and gays joining. That attitude is prevalent in that church, and it strikes me as an incredibly odd contrast to the passive-aggressive hostility of their old contemporary church.
So what's up with this? This is by no means the first or only time I've seen the traditional being more open-minded than the contemporary. We had a similar experience in another contemporary church years ago that helped to push my deconversion along. Has anybody else had any sort of experience like this?
Posted Nov 23, 2015, 2:40 PM UTC
It depends on the denomination, the leaders, the region, the church, and the community. We were Southern Baptist and the contemporary churches were slightly more laid back when it came to things like music, dress code, and other modern inventions, but their theology on things like female leadership and homosexuality wasn't a whole lot radically different than the "traditional" churches that didn't embrace dressing down, praise bands, etc.
Where I live, the more traditional a church, the more notorious they are for their extreme bigotry - especially the "fundamentalist independents." One church I attended briefly was basically a living/breathing Jack Chick tract.