I feel guilty for branching out again

My fiance left me about 4 months ago, but im starting to branch out and meet other girls (which im not even sure im ready to do) and I feel so guilty. Talking to multiple woman at once to get to know them and stuff it feels so disingenuous, but I guess I've never really experienced this either. We were together for 6 years as high school sweet hearts so I never really learned how to be in the searching phase. I just feel really awful and idk how to handle these emotions.

Posted Aug 10, 2020, 3:30 PM UTC

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J-Roc420x•

Really think about if it’s the proper thing to do for your own mental health, if you feel ready by all means talk to the girls, but I moved on to another girl shortly after my ex dumped me, when things with the new girl didn’t work either it really hurt and set me back even further, just be careful bro

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LopsidedRaccoon8•

This. Rebounds set you back and hurt the other party too. Date if you’re ready or continue focusing on yourself for now. Best of luck, OP.

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schadenfreudiaan•

Whatever you do, please be honest with the new girls about where you're at and what you're dealing with. Getting used as somebody's rebound isn't a super fun time.

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nikkijoejay•

Honesty is the best policy

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Jakeallenmusic•

I’m at the 4 month mark after a 7 year relationship and I honestly wouldn’t. Dated a girl for a few weeks and it made me feel worse. Just concentrate on yourself.

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