J-Roc420x

GF cheated on me about 2 years ago and haven’t spoken since

I’ve moved on, like really moved on, but lately as I pass her current bf when I’m driving, he’s started to flip me off?

It’s really quite comical, I’m not sure what the reasoning is, he’s done it twice now and if it happens again I have no problem with sending him a message asking if he has something to say to me

Any advice here? Haha

I broke up with my gf of 9 months today due a difference in libido and major intimacy issues.

It felt like the right decision at the time and still does, but all I can picture now is her crying face when I told her, and how she is home, lonely and sad right now.

Part of me still wants to hold her and make her feel better, but I did this to put myself first and make me feel better

Any advice for dumpers?

Been in my relationship for 9 months, I’m a HL and she’s a LL.

She has countless amazing qualities but after having to suppress my needs sexually for so long now I can feel myself not being satisfied in the relationship.

I would really hate to hurt her, I do love her, but I know other HL’s in here know how it feels to be said no to consistently in the bedroom, or not even bother trying because they know the outcome already.

I feel like I gave my best 9 months I could, but I see dating as preparing for the rest of your lives, and I’m not ready to stop having sex at 23.

It may be time to end the relationship, I’m just not sure how

Update: I ended it with her, she was devastated but I made

I blew my 26 day streak and smoked last night, I got tired of still feeling like garbage even tho I had stopped smoking.

Feel disgusting today, bad headache and brain fog, fully regretting smoking last night, even last night when stoned I didn’t feel good.

Quitting weed isn’t the answer to all my problems but smoking it isn’t either, gotta find a new way to do things.

Dumped weed in the toilet and starting over from scratch.. /sigh wish me luck friends

I know this is a sub for quitting, but just hear me out

It’s day 24 for me now, the longest I went without weed in at least 4 years, but I’ve still noticed 0 positive changes from quitting, if anything I feel way worse.

I was never a heavy user, my peak I was smoking probably 1 gram per week, and I was hoping with quitting I would feel more clear headed, more energized, better memory, etc etc

All I’ve gained so far is more depression, more anxiety, I’m still constantly tired, I’m far more irritable, for the low amount I used to smoke, I’m wondering if quitting might have been a bad idea.

I’m 22 and I know smoking something everyday is not good for me, but since going raw dog thru life I

Day 16 now and I still feel, overall, the same way I did when I was smoking

No real positive changes yet? Not thinking any differently, still sleeping the same basically and still kinda tired everyday (I have slight insomnia anyways)

But like, it’s like I’m waiting for some drastic positive change to make this all worth it, I’m still fighting off my cravings that I occasionally get, but if nothing really noticeable has changed why even quit?

I’m on day 13, I found the last 4-5 days my cravings have been getting worse.

I still haven’t smoked because I’m critical on not breaking my streak, but today was one of my days off and I’ve been sat at my PC the entire day bored out of my mind.

In the back of my head I know if I smoked I would pretty much go to Mars and it would be awesome, but I’d hate myself afterwards.

No motivation to really go do anything else either, friends are working, I live in a boring town, when I’m not with my gf my cravings are just getting worse.

11pm tonight marks my 7 days weed free.

I went on a vacation for 5 days out of my province and used that time to start the process, it’s been a challenge but now I’ve been 1 week clean.

Apart from the vivid dreams, I’ve been excruciatingly tired all the time, has anyone else experienced similar? I would think I would be more awake and alert when sober lol

Still been lingering in this sub ever since my breakup that changed my world

I see myself in every person that posts here heartbroken, and I know it’s said 10,000 times a month in here but... it does get better.

I’ve become a more confident, physically healthier, smarter, more mature man since my ex broke my heart. If I could do it, theres nothing stopping you guys from doing it too. My thoughts of her are all but gone, I see her around and don’t really care anymore, she isn’t even a relative thing in my life at all.

Just hang in there, you’ll find someone else or you’ll find so much comfort living your own life you won’t need to fill a gap, you’ll be content.

Life is short, pick your he

For those that are on bad terms with your ex, did you delete your messages with them and photos?

I’ve been moving on, I hate her guts and she’s a disgusting person but I haven’t been able to delete old photos and stuff yet, it’s not that I look at them ever, i just haven’t gotten rid of them.

So many memories are now just tainted because Im not sure exactly when she became unfaithful, so now all pictures I have leave me wondering when it was she started talking to the new guy

Any advice? Bite the bullet and delete it all? I haven’t deleted any pictures on my phone in like 5 years

My ex came to my work today (I work at a gas station)

First time seeing her in about 8 months and she came with her new bf that she left me for

Served her like any other customer except didn’t speak a word, but since then I’ve felt like I’m going to have a panic attack.

A lot of emotions seeing her in person again, especially with him, I just wanted to make a post here

Wish she would just drop off the earth

So it was my birthday a couple days ago and it was a pretty ordinary day as always, lock down online classes.

Went to bed that night and had a dream where my ex who left me in a very cruel way 8 months ago texted me. In the dream I look at the text which read “Happy Birthday, I hope you’re doing well” and wanted to immediately text her back calling her every foul name I could think, get out so much anger and frustration that I’ve swallowed down and just scream.

I’m not sure why, but instead of doing that I just deleted the text without caring about it at all, I know they say your dreams have meanings, and I usually don’t dream often, but I think that was some kind of way for my subconsciou

I know there’s so many of these, I just feel like I got some wind at my back

Woke up this morning after once again not being able to go without weed the night before. Today, I packed up my bong and all my stuff, put it in a box and gorilla taped the fuck out of it so I can’t easily get at it.

I’m determined to really do it this time, I picked up a vape so I have something to puff on (nicotine only) and I’ve got some melatonin to help me sleep tonight.

Time to get out of this forgetful brain fog I’ve been in for 2 years