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ge99

Followup to my dancing post. New secret weapon, blues dancing.

Made this post a while ago encouraging sedditors to take dance lessons: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/kgorw/need_help_with_aa_kino_leading_and_being/

Followup thoughts:

Dancing has been working so well for me I'm almost considering not using it for seduction anymore. Its almost too easy and I feel like I could easily crutch myself and not build my other skills. Seriously good. No girl refuses a dance lesson date, girls get excited when I mention I dance and I'm closing everybody I bring to lessons.

Dancing is great because you have built in attraction and sexual tension just from being to close. You can feel each other breath and your are just naturally kino'ing and leading her.

My kino was crap before dancing. Now my kino skills are pretty damn good. I touch naturally and confidently.

Did swing, meh. Did salsa, fun and awesome. Blues... oh man, its on another level compared to the other dances.

IMHO blues is a better fit for improving your skills for these reasons:

  1. Blues dancing can be done to more types of music. Blues can be slower dance and you can rock out to almost anything with a good beat.

  2. Way easier to pickup. The basic moves are what you did in highschool with loads of style added on. If you can rock side to side you can blues dance.

  3. The default music for blues dancing is romantic and sensual. Check it out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EjIJt6j11QI

  4. Blues translates easier into other dancing. You'll own the slow dances at weddings and I'm sure you'll start grinding girls at clubs like a champ.

All my previous points about dancing still apply. Blues just has so many other bonuses.

Check out these videos for more examples of it, hot stuff:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xPbas8fSKUc&feature=related http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UcIFwmuFcYw&feature=related

Posted Jan 10, 2012, 4:06 AM UTC

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WildThang42•

As a heads up, blues dancers are a fairly tight knit community. And while blues dancing is very flirty in nature, the dancers tend to discourage using it purely as a way to pick up dates. So, if you just want to meet people, I assure that you'll meet tons of friendly attractive folk, but be aware that you can garner a reputation quickly, too.

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ge99OP•

I agree, don't meet girls at dancing, learn skills at dancing.

I've made really cool friends doing blues dancing and most of them are female.

The primary reason, as stated themselves, is because I'm not creepy. ;)

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drumdance•

Question about blues dancing: do you go to bars that specialize in this kind of music? I like dancing, but most places I go have typical electronic DJ stuff and a lot of people get on the dance floor. (Which is great because I can just go with the flow)

It seems like places that have this kind of music have sparser dance floors and you really need to ask a partner to dance with you rather than just dancing on your own and meeting someone in the process.

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WildThang42•

What you really want to do is search Google for your local blues dancing community. It may or may not take place in a bar, but you will be surrounded by people who are anxious to dance. There's also a good chance you can get a lesson.

And yes, blues dancing is a partner dance. (Usually. Solo blues does happen too.)

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ge99OP•

So I just learned blues dancing and went that night to a bar which plays this type of music.

Found a girl, grabbed her hands and taught/lead her into it. She wasn't my type but it was really fun.

And yes, you have to ask a partner if she wants to dance. Whats the problem?

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drumdance•

Oh I don't have a problem with asking per se, I was just curious what the venue is like. At the typical bar with a DJ you can just hit the dance floor alone.

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