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Just wanted to share my experience of how the confidence and mindsets that pickup teachers is far more useful for just getting laid.

Was beta, got ok at pickup, met a great woman, together for three years, got engaged but then I called off the wedding.

I'm convinced the abundance mentality, the confidence and mindsets I built with this subreddit contributed to me getting out of a bad situation and ending the engagement.

Too many people get married for the wrong reasons and don't have the courage to call off a wedding when the partnership isn't working or red flags come up.

There was no thoughts about sunk costs or that I'll never meet anybody else or that I didn't want to go through da

By any stretch of the definition I am a PUA these days. I rarely go out because I'm busy but have a stable harem and sleep with 1-2 new girls a month. Turn down twice that.

I'm probably pretty terrible compared to some of the guru's but my sexual destiny is under my control now.

Seddit got me from zero to some skill however my true successes started happening when I unlearned some of the narrow advice and material floating around this subreddit.

I'm not here to break balls or cause trouble, just want to add what helped me the most.

1. Your looks matter... You don't have to be a hansom and good looking guy. I'm about average in the looks department but I take care of myself. I g

Ok so here is a totally fucked up and weird story. Just happened 20 minutes ago and had to share.

Currently traveling in New Mexico, go to a club and open 2 indian girls girls at a local club. Don't know if being native american matters...

Instant IoIs, I go into report right away, ya ya traveling, blah blah, doesn't matter.

We hit the dance floor and girl #1 is throwing girl #2 at me. Girl #2 is less hot but whatever. Lets just get laid. We chill, talk, drink, nothing too interesting here. Basic stuff.

Invite her back to my hotel room to smoke a cig and look at my travel pics. Her friend stays in the club this is important. Go in for the kiss, rejected. Watch some tv, go in aga

Made this post a while ago encouraging sedditors to take dance lessons: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/kgorw/need_help_with_aa_kino_leading_and_being/

Followup thoughts:

Dancing has been working so well for me I'm almost considering not using it for seduction anymore. Its almost too easy and I feel like I could easily crutch myself and not build my other skills. Seriously good. No girl refuses a dance lesson date, girls get excited when I mention I dance and I'm closing everybody I bring to lessons.

Dancing is great because you have built in attraction and sexual tension just from being to close. You can feel each other breath and your are just naturally kino'ing and l

I'm already pretty good at conversation but I've found this opener to be really cool and interesting. See a lot of posts about conversation tips so I thought I'd share.

See a tattoo, ask about it. I use this on everybody and its not necessarily for pickup.

A majority of the time really deep diving conversations follow about people or things that were really important to the wearers of the tattoo. I've built some crazy rapport with a older gentleman cashier at a local CVS because of this.

If they say "oh I just thought it was pretty" followup with "it is nice, what do you like the best about it?".

I've been speed dating twice now. Once by accident almost ( long story ) and once on purpose.

Really efficient test and practice platform for fun conversation threading. Opened with "what is your favorite marsupial?" and "I hear you are interested in the position of exclusive sexual partner, what are your qualifications?".

Its no replacement for the field and won't help you get over AA but its still something worthwhile to do. Basically got 5 pretty solid numbers in 1.5 hours and $35.

At the start of 2011 I was newly single with no women in my life at all. I didn't go out and was AFC to the max. The few dates I got from okcupid with low quality women were horrible. I was needy, boring and just awkward. Had girlfriends in the past but always through my social circle and never made the first move.

Febuary/March I started reading seddit and keyboard jockeying.

May/June marked the start of what I would call unlocking the inner ge99 period where I realized I was a huge extrovert and had no problems with conversation. Immediately had some success. Got oneitus pretty badly but still dated other women. Loads of numbers but high flake percentage, couple k-clos

So I see a pair of girls I talked too in my last FR. They aren't for me but are pretty cool to talk with anyway so I go in and chat with them. Could be good friends. I blah blah blah whatever comes to mind for a little bit and then notice... shit... there was a random dude talking with them. I just AMOGed and took over his set.

I didn't even notice he was part of their group until after I took over the conversation. This guy did several things very wrong.

1. Didn't include himself in the conversation right away.
2. His body language was so terrible. Hunched over with hands in pockets.
3. His positioning made it seem like he wasn't even there, wasn't part of the group.

So I final

FR all the things. ( this one is a day late ) I'm going to try and FR every night I go out for a while. The comments are helpful in improving my game and very motivating. Posting this FR is almost a total bummer. Not because things didn't go my way but because I have to expose my failure to you guys. That's worse than any seduction failure, friend zoning or bad date.

Been on two "dates" with this girl. Mostly just casual dancing and hanging out with a mutual group of peers. K-closed night one, 2nd night we sorta lost each other in the crowd after grinding for a while. 3rd was tonight, another kclose.

Now I'll start by saying I get a weird vibe from this girl right away. Hot body,

Thought I'd do a FR because some guy called out the lack of FR's on seddit these days. He's right. FR all the things!

Networking event tonight. Full of young professionals. Usually I run entourage game at events like this but wanted to try and build sexual tension as fast as possible tonight. Mixed results. I think this is my hangup.

Nights like this are almost cheating because approaching people is just something you do.

Start the night out small. Meet up with a girl I kclosed a while back and then she threw up an armarda of ships with red flags one time, serious crazy. Next'ed her but kept as a friend. She is a social connector, have to keep her close. She is a legitimatel

My dating and sex life has exploded thanks to seddit but I think I have a sticking point.

Here is where I am just to provide context:

• No SNL's, well maybe 1.
• Get approached in club settings ( just started going back out a night after a long break ).
• Flake % close to zero.
• First LJBF in 6 months a couple of days ago. Oh and get this, she set me up with her friend... how fucking cool is that? ;)
• Very abundant. Not enough time for all the plates I'm spinning, always 2-4.
• Always KClose, some 3rd base LMR type nights which I can't seem to blow through.

The bad:

• Still don't get chased much, I am always the one texting or contacting.
• I'm dating girls I really am no

So I took some time off from "the game". Went out three times a week instead of 7 dedicated club nights. 50 approaches to about zero. Lost interest in the bar scene, spent too much money and noticed I was getting unhealthy.

Filled my life with activities like dancing lessons, art shows, professional events, working out and generally avoided any meaningless bar hopping. Tried to follow the rule that if drinking was the focus I passed.

My [FRs] would have been pretty boring. Art show, chat with MBAs about business, swing dance with 50 year old women.

Yet during these last two months I've had a tremendous uptick in success. 3 D2's this week alone and I have two other plates I'm spinn

Recently the term "not giving a fuck" has started popping up and being popular on seddit. This term could be harmful, encourage douchy behavior and shouldn't be the phrase that's on your mind when developing your inner game.

The phrase "not giving a fuck" first applies in life situations where you are outside your comfort zone. This could include simply doing an activity you have never done before because of fear.

Lets say you have a fear of doing yoga. Yoga shows off your body's flaws, you will suck at first and there is always the chance of stress farting. Sucks as a beginner.

You have two mental options:

1. I DONT GIVE A FUCK AND ILL DO YOGA

2. I'm going to go to Yoga bec