AbleCryptographer6

So it's been about 2.5 years since we were together, it's was push pull the first year and a half and in the last year I made my peace that I couldn't force her back into my life. We have had a few hour plus calls, about deep emotional things, but she always ended the calls saying she still wanted space. We talked on the phone about a month ago and it's been quiet since. But she just made a 10 minute long video and posted it to tiktok, she was crying her eyes out about how online dating turned into a big fail because men won't respect her boundaries, how the high school friend she was back into talking to last year and she developed feelings for, he just told her he wasnt interested and h

I really, really want to reach out and ask for a phone call. She either forgot or chose no to reach out yesterday. I guess the 4 months no contact was just a mind game for me, i kept telling myself, "don't break no contact, make it to your birthday and see if she reaches out". Crickets, nada, nothing. Everyone says, "stay busy and you'll forget", but all i think of randomly is that we both are going to die married to the wrong person. Idk I just woke up today in my feels and really want to reach out to her. 99.9% chance if I reach out, she'll get mad or upset at me. I'm madly in love with someone who doesn't love me and I keep expecting the impossible to happen. My glimmer of hope, t

The holidays have me feeling a bit emotional and really wanting to reach out and send her a card. It's been 5 months NC, I see her social media and she's posting stuff about being super depressed, hating herself and thinking about an old friend everyday, and being a huge loser and still single (all her words from various posts). Seeing valentines stuff everywhere with all the gifts and stuff really are triggering me. I want to mail a card and wish her well, but I think if she wants to talk she should reach out first.

Well half blocked, blocked on facebook messenger after a argument a few months ago but we were texting and calling until recently. Then her phone fell in the toilet and died. Our last phone call (3 weeks ago) she made it clear she wanted space and for me to move on with my life and i feel like i'm doing great, promotion coming along, good things happening for me. She has posted non stop the last week on social media about having a mental breakdown and today posted that she has 100% given up. She made a post about blocking everyone but secretly wanting to talk to them but feeling like she didnt deserve friendship. Work, school, family, finances, her life, everything is falling apart.

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I'm a man and she's a woman. Been friends fo 4 years. Her traumatic event happend about 3 months ago, but she didnt tell me until 2 days ago. After the event she ghosted me, and told me she wanted space. I waited 4 weeks and same response, wanted space. 2 days ago she told me about the rape and i said i was there to support her and if she needed me for anything i would be there. The day after she sent me a message "i'm sorry i'm blocking you, i'm really sorry". My friend's ex is stalking her and was the perp and he has been making fake profiles trying to contact her or spy on her. I sent her sister a few voice messages, asking for advice on what to do, or her opinion on the situation

So i've got this girl i've been great friends with for 4 years. But the past year has been really self destructive for her. She started college last year and the financial burden and stress and work/home life has made her snap. She's destroyed all her relationships including our friendship. I have tried to reconcile and put in the work to accommodate her emotions but she always says "i'm a bad friend, leave me, you deserve better" and just sabotages the friendship to make me leave. She has clinical depression and a therapist but she isnt commited to going. I try to help her with school and motivate her but it makes her mad because she wants autonomy but she makes absolutely horrible de

We had a windstorm come through town and make a mess of things. A tree blew over and blocked my neighbors driveway. He used a tractor and pushed the fallen tree into my yard. I gave him benefit of the doubt that he just needed access to the street and would clear the tree later. I talked to him today and he said "he paced off the tree and its on my property" so i was responsible for its removal. I asked him who said it was mine and he laughed at me and walked off and said goodluck. Im going to talk to a survey company today and get a survey done.

A few other info, this is rural housing like acreage lots not your typical suburb. Im 99% sure its his tree bc i lived here when the proper

I have mixed emotions on this siutation. Ladyfriend was wanting space. I woke up to a extreme weather alert on my phone telling me to take shelter. Wind storm just came through town and blew the roof off my house, entire town has no electric now. I go outside and see my roof shingles and trees blown down everywhere. Once I realized my roof blew away I started to panic and sent her a text asking if she was Ok. 30 minutes later I felt guilty about breaking NC and apologized and said I was worried she got hurt and contacted her because I felt it was a life or death situation. Its 3am, she's asleep and I havent got a response (not worried about it, saving her phone battery, asleep, or ign

Trying to think of a movie or tv series where a guy spends all night making a gift for someone he likes or gets her flowers and then sees her with another man and throws it in the trash or breaks the gift after losing hope. Something along those lines.

Some ideas were Walter Mitty or The Office and Andy throws a gift away but I can't remember. List any movies with similar scenes if you can. Thanks

Was going to post this elsewhere but "with age comes wisdom" and I need wisdom.

33m, 43fm. Been dating about 7 years, serious for about 4. She's met my family, everyone loves her. She's a really good woman. But we have some issues.

Her ex husband lives in her garage but she is divorced and has full rights to the house and has a legal document saying so. She has 2 full grown kids. When i say "your ex needs to find somewhere else to live", she just says "i know" and says she doesnt want to get the police involved or make a scene in front of her kids. My parents have no idea that her ex husband still lives in her house and it just doesn't sit well with me to have to hide stuff like tha

Hey guys. Some background information. Worked 13 years in a poultry plant, working my way, bottom up. Few years machine operator, then production lead and finally supervisor. Well my facility was shut down and I have no desire to relocate 10 hours away to the location offered. I've always enjoyed the maintenance aspect and whenever my line is down I like watching the guys fix my stuff (and a lot of times it's faster, easier and less paperwork/downtime to fix it myself). I'm very mechanically inclined, done timing belts and stuff on cars, all my own auto work so it's something I enjoy. Also worked production before tearing down the belting and cleaning the machines. LOTO all that stu

So my friend ghosted me and i've come to the conclusion that she never truly cared about me and doesn't value me. She didn't have a car and I was giving her rides to school and work. I live outside the city so round trip 1 time is 45 minutes for me, 3 times a day so 2 hours and 15 minutes of my time in 1 day I spent giving her rides. I bought her gifts for her birthday or when she was feeling sad or overwhelmed with college. I'd buy her things she needed like mouse traps or light bulbs and dropped off take out food just to make her feel better. This all went on for 6 months (friends for 3 years). I helped her get the required vaccination records for college 3 days before the deadline.

https://youtu.be/d8wXSrr3fi0

Notice how overgrown everything is, and the guy having to repair Cody's work

Hello, Did the timing belt on my 2000 Camry with the 5SFE engine on it. Had the cam and crank aligned with the markings but foolishly didn't ensure top dead center on cylinder 1.

So to fix this, would it be 1 revolution on the crank or cam? Pretty much just align both marks and ensure cylinder 1 is at TDC?

Thanks.