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I finally have another romantic partner all my own!

This is the first relationship I built by myself, without being connected by another in my group. And it's only the second where there's some obvious romance and it's not just good sex.

Not that any of those were bad in anyway; I'm not comparing relationships. But it's a first.

My happiness is that, after a long time being a hermit and having severe social anxiety, I'm finally starting to be able to build relationships on my own.

He's an amazing guy, and we've been cuddling while watching stuff for a month, and gaming socially (local gaming shop) for about six months. Friday, I accidentally kissed him (reflexive... one of the commer

Sorry for the corny title, but here, have a positive, gushing post as an apology:

I got sick a week ago or so, and it's been knocking the shit out of me the past couple days.

My Primary was sick before me, and I'm pretty sure I got it from her, and I took care of her when she took a sick day. She just lazed around the house and I made homemade soup and stuff.

We're poly... but we don't currently have active sexual partners, outside of each other.

Even with that, our connections have been amazing. Our ex-primary (now roomie) helped us run chores, and her cowboy even helped with laundry when he spent the night. He is insecure with me, and this is something new and hugely appreciated (

I have milk protein/egg allergies (skin blisters after contact), and while I've done some looking, I haven't found a definite answer on soaps/creams that are safe for me, in any real way. As far as product labeling goes, I tend to be wary, so this may be a dumb/simple question, but this community has been awesome, so I figured I'd ask.

I've found a couple vegan soaps that are quite expensive, but, as I'm trying to get into this to start, I don't want my out-of-pocket to be too big (part of my interest is saving money, as we go through about $20/mo in cartridges in my house).

Thanks in advance, guys!