Big_Researcher325

I’m a 25F and my boyfriend is 36M. We’re long distance.

At the beginning of our relationship, he was extremely thoughtful. He would send me roses, even sent flowers to my mother once when we were first getting closer. He would randomly order me small, thoughtful gifts from Amazon on his own. If I casually mentioned something like “I need a new phone charger,” he’d just order it for me without me asking. I always expressed a lot of gratitude and thanked him every time.

About two months in, he got me roses for my birthday. His birthday is two weeks after mine, and I made sure to match the effort: I sent him roses, a cake, and helium balloons.

As we started getting out of the honeymoon phase

I’m a 25F (Libra) in an LDR with a 36M (Scorpio). We met online and have been talking/dating “officially” for about 6 months. We plan to meet in January.

There are things I really like about him. He’s sweet, romantic at times, remembers details I tell him, shares personal things, sends small thoughtful gifts, talks about a future, has told his family about me, and genuinely seems emotionally invested. He calls me his wife, talks about marriage, and even talks about wanting to get me pregnant. We text/call/video all the time and he says he feels “withdrawals” when we don’t talk for more than an hour. He’s been cheated on before, so I understand where some of his sensitivity might come from.

Hi everyone,

I [25F] have been talking to a guy [36M] online for about 2 months now, and we’re long distance. He’s very successful, and financially well-off, while I’m about to turn 25 and start my own career. From the very beginning, he’s been incredibly attentive — constant calls and texts, thoughtful little gifts and snacks, virtual movie nights, and sweet compliments. He calls me his queen, tells me I’m everything to him, and I genuinely feel cared for and happy.

That said, there are a few things I’d like some perspective on:

•The speed of the relationship: He told me he loves me about 2 months in. He’s already talking about marriage and children and is planning to fly to my country s