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It seems selfish to me, and I see it so much. I've been in a relationship too, she told me to grow a beard and not wear certain shirts just cuz they didn't "fit me" or just cuz they didn't like how it looked. I see this in relationships everywhere, partners always criticizing each other's appearance and how they want things to look on them. It just seems a bit manipulative to me

I hate how broad my shoulders are, how tall I am (6'2), how deep and monotone my voice is, how not-soft my body is. Every time I've dressed girly or remotely am girly, I get weird looks. This is because I'm in a place that's so far-right it would be off the earth's gravitational pull if the earth was flat. I got curtain bangs with my long hair, which gives me a feminine look, kinda.

My family likes the new style, thank god, but only those in my house know of my want to transition (parents and siblings). I'd be lots more confident walking around in skirts and dresses and makeup and purses and all that jazz. I wanna be shorter, I wanna be called a "she", ngl having boobs sounds fun minus the

Fresh from graduating high school three-almost four days ago. Going full-time in a week. I only have so much time. What do I do?

Doing shit with friends is hardly an option, they have their lives and I have mine. They're always busy. Once I go full time, I'll hardly see them again.

I need to do something with my art just so I'm not completely drained of it from work, but what? What do I do? School drained my motivation, but I can't have time to recover and relearn. Work is more important right?

Who cares if I don't eat? Work doesn't. Who cares if I'm depressed? Work doesn't. Who cares if I'm sick? Work doesn't. It's this all-controlling beast that will consume my life with dread and th

I (18M) feel very love-deprived. In a relationship way, in a family way, in a just general human being way.

Recently my partner broke up with me far quicker than I expected. I shouldn't feel bad about it, they know what they wanted and I handled it maturely like my breakup prior to this one. Same reason to, they weren't ready for a commitment. I should be ok... but I'm not. I don't think I'm right as a person and that they both lied when they said I did nothing wrong.

In both if my relationships, I tended to be a bit more of a goofy outgoing version of myself. Now that I'm out of anyone to love, I feel like I don't belong to anyone. The last thing I want to do is resort to a dating site.

I'm definitely gonna over share on this one

It's like I'm getting desensitized to feeling horny at all and it scares me. I don't force myself to get hard, but I feel less good when masturbating because it gets more and more tricky to get erect. I don't masturbate super often probably because of these problems I have, but I just don't know what to do about it. Is this problematic? Should I go see a doctor?

I know that I have retractile testicles (super uncomfortable btw) and a weird bubble of air or something near my crotchal region. Otherwise I'm not sure what to do about this besides ask here

I, 17M (18M in like 7 days), have been diagnosed with the high-functioning stuff since I was little and learned about it at 14. I learned late because my Mom thought I already knew and who used to be me therapist explained it.

I over explain lots in this post, but it's just an autistic trait I have. Bare with me if you're willing to! Feel free to ask for clarification on anything in the post lol

Anyway, since then, I've blamed it all on my condition. I'm depressed because of autism, I'm anxious because of autism, I'm creepy because of autism, I'm unmotivated, I'm ugly, I'm sensitive, I'm undesirable all because of it. Or so I thought, anyway. My only saving grace was my art, which I stil

I cared about her so much, I was star-strucken by her. I made drawings for her, bought things for her, considered her feelings and was always willing to listen, had my first time with her and everything. We made so many plans with each other, but she said nevermind. 11 days before I turned 18. Less than a month before our first anniversary. Right before I was gonna show her an Adobe Illustrator project with our prom photo.

She was everything I wanted in someone. Creative, considerate, kind, goofy, open-minded, cuddly. Then she said she just wanted to be friends. But it's more complicated how she explained it

She says she still cares deeply about me. She says that she's still down to hang

I (17M) have always wanted to be a girl ever since I was little. I asked for things that were girly, I wore girly things while playing the drums in family Rock Band sessions at around 4, and I just think I'm myself whenever I don't resemble a man. I even like it when people mistake me as a girl, though it rarely happens- I just have shoulder-length hair and some naturally luscious eyelashes. I just wish my voice wasn't so deep and how uncomfortable it is to have balls and mountains of body hair.

So what's wrong with that? Well, many things, psychologically and culturally.

I'm too iffy about buying women's clothes and products. I really want to, but I know most of my family won't approve.