DemonVice

So I'm incredibly torn on class. My end goal is ocean Pvp, which when I played many years ago, archer was king of.

Down side is archer isn't exactly easy to level, and the 3rd continent mobs are getting rough. Or I'm doing something wrong, who knows.

I guess my question is, do I consider melee/mage or just tough out archer?

So I wasn't sure what to title this, but I'd like to know. Does anyone else nickname people from OLD in their head? Not as a bad or condescending way, but more like a self preservation mechanism.

I've lately found myself keeping people as nicknames until we've had a few dates and things show some promise. Obviously I still know names and call people by them, but when thinking about people it's all nicknames. Before I'd invariably get invested mentally then hurt when they'd disappear or bail.

So I'm no Don Juan or anything, but I do occasionally get matches. But whatever I'm doing is apparently not quite right because if I send said match a message, I rarely get anything back. I'm not super damanding, but I'll generally write it off after a week or so, and I usually only send the one message so as to not weird people out. I'll usually just ask about something I found interesting in their profile hoping to open up a conversation.

Am I doing something wrong or is this just how things go?

I was reading the post about how people think about their exes and it got me thinking. The last couple of women I dated (2 LTRs from 22-32) I remember fondly. We had a ton in common, did lots of stuff together etc etc. On the surface, seems like everything should be great.

But then it occured to me, that when I met both of them, neither of them really DID much of anything. One just hung out with friends, pretty average I'd say. But the second had pretty much no social life and no friends outside of me. I'd often ask both for input on things to do, places to go etc, but was always met with some form of "Oh whatever you want to do".

Now, I'm a huge motorcycle buff, I work on all my o