This might sound really dumb. So my gf of 7 years and I got married in November. I love her. We've had a pretty easy relationship over the years. Most of our arguments we've had over that time stemmed from the how we enjoy different things, most of the resolutions to those arguments end with the thought that it is ok that we like different things, that doesn't make us incompatible.
Here is where I'm at, and I need to know if I'm being dumb now or are we really incompatible and I've just been drinking/smoking this whole time and I was dumb to marry her. We decided to quit drinking and smoking weed for a few months. I'm fine with this, I have taken long breaks from alcohol before and it's a n

