RepeatEither6019

51M, married 24 years, wife 56F. We love each other, but we've had almost no sex since late 2025, maybe 3 times and very short.

From 2014 to 2025 i was the chaser, frustrated, sometimes good but alwats up to me. I lost my self esteem, got bad PE and developed a cuckold fantasy. After a few years talking she decided she wanted it.

She became extremely slutty for others and our sexlife was briefly great.She had a few different sex dates and one very intense solo sex date.

Squirting 5 times during a rough, intense 2 hour constant pounding (her words). I discovered she had lied and gone behind my back to kind of maniulate me to agree to it with him.

That left me with some significant feelin

I started training on august 11th with OFM. In just a few sessions I was down to 65s.

Then with a very light lidocaine I got to 4m15 and 2m30 in 2 sessions. Since august 25th ive been using TKTX 40% tattoo numbing cream (5% lido), doing every 2nd day, dressed women hypno video.

The max time was first at 20min, and I came 2 times. Then I reduced it to 10min (impatient lol) and 2 times I've been right on the edge of PONR, dribbling. I often even feel close after 2 or 3min but lose it.

Yesterday due to lack of time i did a quick ofm (no lido), no porn, no prep, no fantasy just straight to ofm. Damn the pleasure shot straight through me, what an incredible feeling without the lido now. I cam

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In just 4 weeks after restarting my training I've gone down to 65s OFM. Then with a very light lidocaine 4m15 and 2m30.

Now ive done 3 sessions with normal lidocaine very numb after 15min setting.

I've set my max at 20min. 1st time was tough and DNF. 2nd i came so much right on 20m.

Today i DNF, but i was several times very near PONR even after about 3min. It was a real roller coaster. Very near PONR, disappointed slightly soft, build again. I think thats a good sign, but damn i was almost dizzy from tge hornisess afterwards. I think its going to happen soon and then the times will tumble.

Ideas or feedback on what you is interesting.

My training

I train every second day. Se

After years of huge sleeve sex, sevete PE then chastity and denial my wife cucked me last october having the fuck of her life, 1.5hours puv focused rough pounding to 5 times squirting.

It was all too intense so we stopped cuckolding.

Since a month under therapy guidance we are using sensate focus to rediscover intimacy and how we can have good sex with my severe PE.

The rules are 1hr session, no talking, orgasm isnt tge target. 1st phase not touching pussy or dick, 2nd its allowed but no piv, 3rd is piv allowed.

Im finally feeling relaxed and no pressure. We have already started 2nd stage and we both loved it. In therapy and to my wife i said id like to stay in this phase as long as p

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In just 14 days after restarting my training I've gone down to 65s OFM. Then lidocaine 4m15 and now 2m30. Im really surprised but happy my lidocaine times are already so low. It also felt different like my ponr was 15+ seconds before orgasm and after spurting a few drops (i dont ever have much cum really) i kept leaking for a good 5min.

My training

I train every second day. Set a max time. Stop if I don't cum and wait until the next session. If i cum within the time I reduce the next session target to a lower time.

I'm thinking of 2 or 3minutes but I'm afraid that I will never cum with lidocaine..... Last year during the cuckolding I was denied in chastity for a week or more. I

In just 10 days after restarting my training I've gone down to 65s OFM. So I've decided lidocaine is the way to go for me.

I train every second day. Set a max time. Stop if I don't cum and wait until the next session. If i cum within the time I reduce the next session target to a lower time. I love the max times and being "punished" if I don't cum. I am wondering what would be a good starting max time?

I'm thinking of 2 or 3minutes but I'm afraid that I will never cum with lidocaine..... Last year during the cuckolding I was denied in chastity for a week or more. I had to uncage, use lidocaine and fuck her. I couldn't feel anything at all and pounded her for 45min, no where near cumming

Back 2nd of May I was at 49s OFM after 4 weeks. I totally stopped and restarted on august 9th. In only 8 days I'm already at 1m05.

Wow, I'm happy, surprised and really enjoying being such prejac.

My target is pussy free with my wife, and cumming after one or 2 strokes or licks. Of course HFO while i pleasure her would be even better.

When would it be best to start using lidocaine or through my pants? Once I get under 1m or wait until im at 30s?

9/aug Full hand 1m DNF

11/aug OFM 2m DNF

13/aug OFM 1m 20S

15th OFM 1M 20S DNF

17th OFM 1M 05S

Anyway im very curious how quickly ill be ofm sub 50s and if and how quickly i can get to 30s.

For a longtime I've had PE, so i started using very large penis sleeves in 2015 to last longer and to pound her hard. That led to discovering she is big and liked stretching. That led to stretching, developing the crowbar technique and getting her looser.

At the sametime my PE got worse and I eventually told her my cuckolding fantasy. So I became her subby, in chastity, serving her, PE humiliation. It was an amazing but challenging time.

She went for the cuckolding lustfully. Last year she got a dominant incredible 1.5hr continuous pounding by a 9"+, squirting 5 times. The best fucking of her life. Funny is, he couldnt come in her bucket pussy, told her how big she was, and even fucked he

Back in May i was under 1m ofm after 3 weeks or so.

4 days ago i targeted full hand 1m and i was very close, so i thought why not skip straight to ofm with clothed BB women. Then my wife made me cum quickly with a BJ the next morning.

So 2 days ago target was 2min, ofm dressed bbb. Didnt cum but close.

Today target again was 2m ofm. 4 days without cumming very horny. I came easily at 1m20 and was very close at 1m. Im still incredibly horny.

In 2 days time my new target is 1m20.

Anyway im very curious how quickly ill be ofm sub 1m again.....taking bets. I guess 2 weeks.

Back in May i was under 1m ofm after 3 weeks or so.

2 days ago i targeted full hand 1m and i was very close, so i thought why not skip straight to ofm with clothe BB women.

So today target was 2min, damn i was so close. So now i have to wait 2 days. Thats 4 days without orgasm. From my history im 90% sure ill be cumming before 2 min.

I enjoy the anticipation, denial, sensitivity soooo much, im like, why the hell did i stop lol.

Anyway im very curious how quickly ill be ofm sub 2m again.....taking bets. I guess 3 weeks.

Im m51 wife f56 together 24 years. Duri g my life Ive had lots of phases with my PE, sometimes teally bad with embarassing moments and frustrated women, sometimes okayish with stop start and now and again zero PE pussy pounding marathons. Im also a decent 7x5.5 with a strong build.

With my wife years playing around with huge sleeves led to cuckold fantasy with mostly pretty bad PE. Ive neber been able to give intense fucking sessions except for with the sleeves. Those sessions showed me her potential.

In 2023 i told her my cuckold fantasy and she told me hard truths about my pe, her frustration, past amazing sex partners. This hurt a lot andmade my pe much worse, i was cumming in seconds.

My wife had never squirted but orgasms easily and can multi orgasn from oral, stretching, fisting, vibrators and piv.

Weve played with cuckoldung and she had her first bull. Beforehand he said he would make her squirt.

So during an intense session, i wasnt there, she said he fucked her for a solid 1.5hrs and made her squirt volumes 5 or 6 times. I went to her afterwards and the bed was crazy wet.

Shes not descriptive at all so i am wondering how this might have been for her. She said she didnt orgasm though, that it was intense but after 6 squirts she was exhausted.

Im 51 and wife is 55, and we are together for 24 years. We were vanilla kids etc and around 11 years ago i introduced large penis sleeves, led to huge, led to pussy stretching to permanently very loose, cuckold fantasy, intense huge penis sleeve pounding, severe PE, PE humiliation, chastity with periods of 5 weeks locked and denied, chastity reverse pegging, and finally solo date cuckolding in october 2025. She got pounded roughly to 5 squirting orgasms by a hung dom bull but not sm. She said she totally surrendered to him and loved it but it scared her how much a slut she became.

Then things went bad when during another date in a swingers club she had a reliving of her child abuse. We ar

1/05 timer should have been 99s but i thought 90s. so i set 90s, uncaged, soft, put lube on waited 1min and started.

It felt great and after about 20s i thought this will be easy and i started PNR at about 50s but kept rubbing and the first spurt was at about 58s.

WOW. exactly 1 month since my first timed full hand at 60s and now its even a bit faster with 1 finger.

I spurted a lot and i absolutely love the tase so i ate it all. I washed my cage and myself, still getting shots of pleasure just from washing, was rock hard and put my cage back on on.

Should i stick with the plan of 90s -10% so 81s or actually my current time of 58s - 10% so 52s? This is progressing so easily and it fee

Started April 2nd at 60s full hand, down to 29s thumb plus forefinger on april 22nd. Then switched to OFM 2 days ago 2m45s and today 1m50. My target was 2m30s.

I'm surprised how pleasureable and easy the OFM is. I thought i would jump up to 10min or something but wow. already under 2m.

I uncaged, started soft, lubed and go. I only rub about a cm of my frenelum, pretty gently and not at all fast. After 10s i was rock hard and knew it was going to be easy. I kept thinking how i will blow so quickly in her bucket pussy if this feels so intense.

I had a dressed big boobs video on but i hatdly glanced at it, i was so focused on how good it felt.

By being so consistent how long do you think be