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So I (f25) got back in recent touch with an old fling (m28). Basically he reached out to me couple weeks ago (about something unrelated to hooking up) but we also ended up sexting.

Anyways so I also asked him about a hookup attempt from maybe a month or two ago, and he mentioned being busy with life stuff and less horny at that time.

What also happened is last week (maybe a week after he reached out), I texted him late at night to sext which he left on opened maybe couple hours later (I know he saw because we communicate primarily on Snapchat). I wonder maybe he’s definitely disinterested going forward or maybe just that day wasn’t the day. He was receptive maybe few days ago when

So firstly, I know air pulse vibrators are meant to emulate sucking on a clit. Does it work by blowing puffs of air? Can they also be used in erogenous zones other than the clit?

Any thoughts or tips on having a partner blow puffs of air onto the clit? Or onto other erogenous zones?

Other erogenous zones, aside from clit, of mine that I think may be sensitive are nipples and navel. I imagine having air blown in these 3 specific areas in fantasies, and I get a tingly and almost pulsating sensation in my clit (and I think other areas of vag) which I think means these may turn me on.

I should say I’m 25f and still a virgin, but I’m really wanting to experiment. Especially with wha

So firstly, I know air pulse vibrators are meant to emulate sucking on a clit. Does it work by blowing puffs of air? Can they also be used in erogenous zones other than the clit?

Any thoughts or tips on having a partner blow puffs of air onto the clit? Or onto other erogenous zones?

Other erogenous zones, aside from clit, of mine that I think may be sensitive are nipples and navel. I imagine having air blown in these 3 specific areas in fantasies, and I get a tingly and almost pulsating sensation in my clit (and I think other areas of vag) which I think means these may turn me on.

I should say I’m 25f and still a virgin, but I’m really wanting to experiment. Especially with what

So I’ve noticed on dating subs that every time a woman shares a story of rejection or getting “f*ckzoned”/ended at a fling, the most likely manosphere bros are quick to say she’s “punching above her league.”

Basically that she’s only chasing chads or must be extremely unattractive.

Literally also happened to me when I’ve talked of not hearing back after the first date, even if I’ve specified it’s happened very few times and anyways only shared to say it’s normal (as I’ve been mutually uninterested or not that invested anyways).

But yea please do share your stories ladies. Stories where they were equally or less conventionally attractive than you are especially fair game (see if it h

About to get either an ombré or hair dyed (or highlighted) in few days, so could really use tips.

Ps, are cold showers really necessary?

Sometimes, do we tend to gaslight or engage in other manipulative behaviors in response to the abuse we receive from another?

Is this a part of “reactive abuse?”

I’m noticing nowadays that when we talk off something being a privilege. Some privileges or types of discrimination are contested because of talking about advantages vs disadvantages. Going to start with small scale examples I can think of: lookism/pretty privilege or thin privilege/fatphobia. Does something have to only have advantages to be a privilege? Do disadvantages have to be absent for something to be a privilege? If we conceptualize by disadvantage, can’t the same be said for male privilege?

I’ve also noticed for the example privileges I used, people often talk abt specific prejudices they face, such as jealousy. But then again, do prejudices against an identity alone make s

Yea, I need to get this rant off my chest in this community about a toxic former woman friend.

I cut her off due to manipulative tendencies that made our friendship unhealthy, and she decided, out of pettiness, to message an old fling (who’s been my friend for couple years) of mine out of what I presume is petty revenge. Revenge because I dumped her as a friend (and I dealt with a lot of gaslighting or hoovering from her when I tried to break the friendship off).

In fact, when I confronted her after finding out, she was back peddling and even gaslighting (by claiming my old fling “misinterpreted” the exchange) only to admit “yea us being mad at each other contributed.” And she’d go ba

Wanting a good faith discussion without potential manosphere bros interjecting or hijacking hence the flair.

First message was “you’re so god dang beautiful” which alone is fine imo.

Here are some examples messages go:

1. I asked what he’s doing now, and he says “just watching anime, and you beautiful?”

2. When setting up first date plan, I give days that work for me, and he says “I’m down for both days beautiful.”

I don’t perceive as red flag but I find it a turn off in an overly obsequious way. It also feels like instances like situation 2 are him not being serious when we should be in the convo. Idk I’m just wondering if anyone else ever feels the same in the early stages

Can include types of compliments (looks, personality, etc), types of questions, types of flirts, etc.

So personally, I obviously know it is demeaning if I’m not seen as an individual person and expected to live up to a family, or if my race is hypersexualized.

But I can’t help but feel flattered if someone likes my race, or likes, say, ethnic features associated with a race (maybe even prefers over Eurocentric).

I also lowkey have mixed feelings about the term “exotic.” Can one want to be seen as exotic consensually on your own terms (think that song back in like 2012 ish by Priyanka Chopra)?

Online, I’ve heard a mix of experiences when it comes to those who are considered attractive. Personally, I’ve observed conventional attractivness increasing popularity among women friends or positive attention, and as someone who’s “glowed up” I’ve experienced an increase in positive attention from women and men alike too.

I’m also yet to hear from less conventionally attractive women online how it has affected their relationships with other women. Definitely have my own observations to list on that as well.

I’ll elaborate more on my experiences and observations in a top level, but I’m curious to know all of yours.’

Basically when it comes to Blonde celebs who are well liked/considered attractive, I wonder how much they fit into objective beauty if they weren’t blonde (and more often than not didn’t have blue or green eyes). Is their objective beauty based on primarily the western Eurocentric standards or do they have the other universal objective metrics, such as symmetry, golden ratio/face harmony, femininity, etc.?

How would they be perceived in non-western cultures especially? Feel free to answer and share your place of origin if you’re a redditor outside of the West.

Some examples of well liked “blonde bombshells” through time being: Margot Robbie, Scarlett Johansson, Christie Brinkley, Hei

Feel free to share clothes suggestions

Just recently been learning about Zara (who I literally only been to once) having not only made an ad but a CEO or manager that made Islamophobic and anti Palestinian statements to one of their models (of Palestinian descent) AND utilizes Uighur slave labor.

I’ve been thinking a lot about making more active boycotts of companies employing human labor or funding genocides (or bigoted causes) and supporting local, esp marginalized communities.

So spill away people